Ok so I'm at Costco again shopping, (shut up they have the bomb chicken bakes), anyway I see this girl that I went on ONE date with four years ago. When we saw each other I gave her a head nod, with a smile to be cordial, but she didn't crack an expression at all and acted like she didn't even see me. Oh well it's all good.
She was with a girlfriend and they were shopping as well. So I am now in the frozen food section, and I'm reading the ingredients on this new pack of all beef hotdogs.
When I hear this faint voice in the distance saying, "girl ain't that the guy you went out with years ago"? And her friends response was, "Yeah He Married Some Mixed Chick A Few Years Later Doh", Guess He Couldn't Handle A Strong Independent Black Woman". STOP RIGHT THERE!!!!
Who declared you strong and independent? Just because you can pay your own car note, electricity and cell phone bill doesn't make you strong and independent, IT MAKES YOU RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN BILLS.
Second, who said that just because I'm a black man that I'm supposed to date or marry a black woman? I'm so sick and tired of hearing that garbage, it's redundant, tired and played out. So what if my wife is Mexican & Native Indian, she's the best thing that ever happened to my sorry butt next to God. This is exactly part of the many reasons WHY so many women will remain single for 20+ years, lonely and bitter as hell. Because of your ignorance, foul disposition and your stanky attitudes towards what you feel black men should do. Oh my bad, I forgot, you single by choice and waiting on God huh? Anyway!
Yes we share a common ground yes we share a common history, and yes we share a lineage of ethnicity and skin pigmentation. But that has absolutely NOTHING to do with WHO I decided to fall in love with. I've dated extensively outside of my black race since college, and EVERY race, nationality and color of women on the planet has issues. So why am I supposed to limit myself and my mind to those same issues, but with color as a foundational building block?
Now if you honestly believe that because of who I married, determines my level OR authenticity of blackness, then you're a new kind of stupid.