Having a good physique is only the icing on the cake. Its isn't going to do anything for you on it's own.
A socially awkward guy with muscles, will still have a hard time with women.
a fat slob with money, or an average joe with a Hyundai, can bang some hotties if they have some game.
Lifting should be about yourself. Anything else and you are doing it for the wrong reasons.
It's as much of a personal journey for some, as it is about vanity for most.