last night i put on a backward hat, extra smedium johnny cash shirt, and was pretty lean from a week of cardio and clean eating. Caught smiles and small talk all night, but I did blueball the girls.
usually I'm frumpy, serious, dressed professionally with eyes on my work. All you have to do to hook up is be lean, dress like a douchebag, use that cheesy smile, and don't ever put them on a pedestal.