If I may be so bold...
"whatever you own owns you in return"
When you buy a dog for a pet you then have to take it to the vet, walk it, pick up its crap, feed it, bathe it, arrange your travel and vacations around its care, etc.
When you own a car you then have to maintain it, put gas in it, insure it, make payments, etc.
Likewise a house? Spend money and time taking care of it, paying the mortgage, insurance, taxes, etc.
You work at your job to pay for it. It owns you. The bank (mortgage/loan) owns you.