This worrying about, and debating about "what women want" is pretty silly teenage thinking.
Is this Traub guy too big to attract the maximum amount of women? C'mon, who cares. Did Arnold have problems attracting women when he was big? "Yeah but Arnold was also successful and charismatic etc". Exactly.
Do you suppose women are attracted to some neurotic pussy who worries that his 16 inch guns are getting too big?
You can talk about what women go for ideally but do you think pro bodybuilders generally have extreme problems finding casual sex partners?