Interesting experience that's for sure. Interesting he even brought it up. The only thing I can think of is that he thought you would think that is why he did not sell it to him.
DING DING DING!!!That was my point Cap! for him to bring that up out of the blue...
he was far too conscious of the fact that he was talking to a Black person (or in his mind...
{whisper} a "COLOURED")
He wasn't talking to a person about a car, ...he was talking to
{whisper} a COLOURED
For him to even suspect I could possibly think such a thing tells me the guy is far too conscious of race.
consider this for a moment, ...what if he had been talking to a blonde person, ...how ridiculous would it be for someone to assume that maybe they think I won't sell them the car because they have blonde hair, ...or maybe it's because they are wearing a peach coloured sweater... or maybe it's because she's wearing a Rolex and not a Timex... come on.
Do you not see how ridiculous that was? And for him to have to furtively whisper to me that his son-in-law was Black... WTF? I don't give a poop about your family... I wanna know if you're willng to sell the car. The guy was too acutely aware of race, and that's what makes him a racist. Just because his acute awareness was not accompanied by hatred or hostility, doesn't make him any less racist.
You even see this online even. In a forum such as this, where the only means of communication is through type, you have people who will hurl insults at each other. They're generic insults, idiot, moron etc., ...but as soon as they discover the ethnicity of that person... the insults take on ethnic slurs. Why is that? ...especially when this medium does not lend itself to a daily visual reminder of the ethnicity of the individual? One day I'm an idiot, ...then someone finds out I'm a woman, and idiot turns to bitch. Then they find out I'm a Black woman, ...and Bitch turns to VooDoo Queen. WTF?