i thought it was a joke etc man
No, it was very real. He landed her with his writing. He never even showed her his face(explains a lot

), and she was all set to fly to New Zealand to marry him. He told many people about it via PM and then they all got posted. I think she was embarrassed that he dogged her out like that in front of her peers, cuz she didn't post for a while. It's nice to see her back, she should stay away from internet Casanovas like Kiwi from now on.