yeah sure it is.
takign pride in being able to lift huge weights is a sign of insecurity, brotha. just like everything else you calim to be "macho", and for "real men".
a "real man" is not worried about seeming masculine and strong.. only homophobic (which in reality is just a term that describes someone who is scared that they themselves might be gay; so they block everything out that seems gay in the slightest; just so they might never SLIP into faggetry.), uncultured, and undeductaed men care about lifting big.
bodybuilders CAN be insecure, and that is their motivation. but for a big portion of us, including myself, its because we are sex fiends.