This is all being blown out of proportion.
There is never the lead in to that tape shown. There was much said before that which lead to what you hear on that tape.
Duane is not a bad man. He is a Christian, father, husband, lover, business owner, celebrated celebrity, lover of all things involving leather, friend of native americans, former criminal, fan of toaster strudel, and one hell of an American. He does not deserve to be remembered for this outburst of love and frustration for a child.