You know, since i got married that's the one thing i make sure i continue doing and i also have NEVER turned him down when he wants sex...and no, it's not because i want something either, i just figure if he wants it and he's not getting it from me he can find it anywhere so i try to do my best to avoid that. Then if he ever does cheat on me, i can be the 3% that can say "well, it's not because i did not put out".
Lisa
So...married AND having sex against your will. Unless you're saying you automatically want sex every single time your husband does.
Sounds like slavery to me.

As for Joe...congrats, but is there still time for you back out with a quickie divorce? You know, without having to pay through the nose. I pity you Joe, as I'd rather stick a fork in my eye than get married.