This is what happened as Nasser just told me on the phone:
Shortly after the 2001 Olympia Nasser was guest posing in Germany and his wife called him asking for a divorce. They had some disagreements at him always being out of town/country and her feeling neglected but he did not know it was this serious, so he told her to wait at home and that they would discuss it in person when he returns. He came back to San Diego with his mother, and when he arrived at home lots of the furniture was missing but more extravagant there were police at his door who issued him a restraining order to not come within 90 yards of his wife.
You are not allowed to hire a private investigator while under a restraining order in California, so he got his parents to hire two private investigators to figure out what's going on. From their research, it turned out that she had been cheating on him for a few years, and was currently with a second guy (the first one being for about 19 months). Nasser owned a condo complex which his wife would manage, and for 19 months she was allowing one tenant she was seeing not to pay any rent. Later she met another guy on the beach while walking Sato when Nasser was travelling like he usually did. This guy worked out at the same gym as Nasser, and only lived 5 minutes away from him. He found out all this information from the two private investigators.
Bisera (or Birjit), (his ex wife), got the restraining order put on Nasser in fear that he would try to find out what is going on and would then get evidence that she was cheating on him which would obviously contradict the case she was trying to fabricate against him that he was cheating on her. Any woman who goes to a judge and says, "My husband is 320 lbs, he is on steroids and gets roid rage, he abuses me, I need a restraining order, etc." would issue one without any second though. Actually most judges would issue one without second thought even for most guys regardless of their size. It could happen to anyone.
During the court case she did try to complain that Nasser was abusing her. Eight friends of Nasser's, including the late Trevor Smith and his wife Nancy Smith, testified in Nasser's favour by explaining how they are know the couple very well and have never seen any signs of abuse. Also, Nancy Smith was a counsellor for battered women by profession, so she would not blindly defend Nasser against a cause she believes so strongly in. However, the strongest evidence in Nasser's favour was that Bisera had NO physical signs of abuse. Nasser's lawyer repeatedly asked her to produce even a shred of evidence or any medical records that she had been abused. Bisera accused Nasser of breaking her wrist, among other accusations, yet was not able to produce any type of x-ray or anything to support that - obviously because it was a lie. Other claims she made which she would have had some scars or evidence to show for (but she did not) were that Nasser broke her wisdom tooth and that he would hit bottles on her head.
We all know women often play the victim and fabricate stuff like this to get their way. I'm sure it has happened to some people here on getbig.com where they may be at a nightclub and get into a disagreement with a random girl they meet and she ends up telling a bouncer that you grabbed her boobs or whatever and you get kicked simply over her world. It could happen to anyone, just like it did to Nasser. To futher Nasser's case, he also had much evidence of her affairs as was given to him by the PI's.
The abuse charges were DROPPED as there was simply no evidence of any.
By March/03 she was no longer with the guy she was seeing and wanted to get back with Nasser, actually she begged him to get back together. She lived a six hour drive away and drove down on Friday and left on Sunday for 8 weekends in a row to stay at Nasser's place and try to woo him into accepting her back. Nasser was friendly with her and allowed her to stay in the guest room, however did not take her back.
Nasser also said that all this (with more detail of course) is already drafted for his book. He was not hiding anything and doesnt care that it came out in a different way. In one of my first responses to this I said you could have just asked Nasser and he probably would have told you - he has nothing to hide.
