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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #25 on: April 08, 2008, 03:51:57 PM »
 ??? i think i lost the whole  story behind this post!
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #26 on: April 10, 2008, 07:56:58 AM »
Ok, the dad died 4 years ago.  Did Linda know 4 years ago that he died, or did she just find out now?   ???
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #27 on: April 10, 2008, 09:38:04 AM »
the real question is....

did Linda find out 4 years ago & today is when it finally sunk in?
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #28 on: April 10, 2008, 10:24:37 AM »
Most confusing thread in getbig history.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #29 on: April 10, 2008, 10:29:13 AM »
What's confusing?

Her parents divorced.
The dad moved to Canada and married a B because he was elderly and didn't know better.
The B got him to change his will.
When he died, the B did not bother informing the immediate family until after the funeral.
Linda hasn't gotten over it.
Now, four years later, she's received a call from some Canadian friends offering to help her try to recoup some of her inheritance.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #30 on: April 10, 2008, 10:54:56 AM »
Quote from: Deedee on April 10, 2008, 10:29:13 AM
What's confusing?

Her parents divorced.
The dad moved to Canada and married a B because he was elderly and didn't know better.
The B got him to change his will.
When he died, the B did not bother informing the immediate family until after the funeral.
Linda hasn't gotten over it.
Now, four years later, she's received a call from some Canadian friends offering to help her try to recoup some of her inheritance.

You've got mad skillz, lady.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #31 on: April 10, 2008, 11:08:02 AM »
Quote from: calmus on April 10, 2008, 10:54:56 AM
You've got mad skillz, lady.

Must be a woman to woman thing.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #32 on: April 10, 2008, 11:11:35 AM »
Quote from: xxxLinda on April 06, 2008, 09:29:27 AM
Just now.  They're in Vancouver.  And they've offered to look up the legals for me.  I was extremely upset, because I wasn't there. 

I wasn't even told when the funeral was.

Take a hint. Family and friends didn't want you there.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #33 on: April 10, 2008, 11:16:36 AM »
Quote from: Pollux on April 10, 2008, 11:11:35 AM
Take a hint. Family and friends didn't want you there.

You didn't read it properly. None of the family was informed until after the funeral

 
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #34 on: April 10, 2008, 11:20:49 AM »
Quote from: calmus on April 10, 2008, 10:54:56 AM
You've got mad skillz, lady.

Quote from: tu_holmes on April 10, 2008, 11:08:02 AM
Must be a woman to woman thing.

 :)  Linda made mention of it before. 

And just to add to that, I can imagine it must be really galling and upsetting not to be told your father has passed, because the second wife didn't want anything interfering with her timely collecting on the will.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #35 on: April 10, 2008, 11:47:50 AM »
Quote from: xxxLinda on April 08, 2008, 11:18:25 AM
And another reason I'm finding it difficult to deal with:  He died of prostate cancer.

New wife should've had a look at his dick, taken him to the hospital, not wait till it was time to re-write his will and bury him.


You can tell by looking at a penis if the guy has prostate cancer?

          :-\
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #36 on: April 10, 2008, 11:48:51 AM »
Quote from: knny187 on April 10, 2008, 09:38:04 AM
the real question is....

did Linda find out 4 years ago & today is when it finally sunk in?


No, 4 years later Linda needs money and has decided to pursue this. 
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #37 on: April 10, 2008, 11:50:39 AM »
Quote from: ~flower~ on April 10, 2008, 11:47:50 AM

You can tell by looking at a penis if the guy has prostate cancer?

          :-\
Maybe she confused between prostate cancer and VD
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #38 on: April 10, 2008, 12:19:42 PM »
Quote from: Laura Lee on April 10, 2008, 11:50:39 AM
Maybe she confused between prostate cancer and VD

 Even though Linda is a crack whore, I doubt her dad died of VD.


   
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #39 on: April 10, 2008, 12:21:17 PM »
Quote from: Laura Lee on April 10, 2008, 11:50:39 AM
Maybe she confused between prostate cancer and VD
Thats harsh   :-\
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #40 on: April 10, 2008, 12:29:26 PM »
Quote from: Deedee on April 10, 2008, 10:29:13 AM
What's confusing?

Her parents divorced.
The dad moved to Canada and married a B because he was elderly and didn't know better.
The B got him to change his will.
When he died, the B did not bother informing the immediate family until after the funeral.
Linda hasn't gotten over it.
Now, four years later, she's received a call from some Canadian friends offering to help her try to recoup some of her inheritance.

You got all that just from this?  ???

Just now.  They're in Vancouver.  And they've offered to look up the legals for me.  I was extremely upset, because I wasn't there. 

I wasn't even told when the funeral was.

You seem to know more than us. Are you her bitch?
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #41 on: April 10, 2008, 12:34:49 PM »
Quote from: Pollux on April 10, 2008, 12:29:26 PM
You got all that just from this?  ???

Just now.  They're in Vancouver.  And they've offered to look up the legals for me.  I was extremely upset, because I wasn't there. 

I wasn't even told when the funeral was.

You seem to know more than us. Are you her bitch?

No I am not her bitch.  We don't even live on the same continent.

I've translated far worse.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #42 on: April 10, 2008, 12:37:53 PM »
Quote from: powerpack on April 10, 2008, 12:21:17 PM
Thats harsh   :-\

That's horrid.


Look, the last time I saved up all my money and visited Canada was the September before me Pa passed.  But I stopped off in Vancouver on the way, to visit and spend two nights and 3 mad days with a coupla gay friends I'd known in TO, then I took a deep breath and took the ferry to the Island. 

(My fab friends offered to come over with me and put her in a garbage bag).  But we didn't




I just wasn't there to hold his hand.



She bought him a fab marble bench (inscribed with her name) overlooking the Ocean for the anniversary last year and they threw the ashes into the Pacific, someone sent me the clipping from the local newspaper.


I should've seen it coming.



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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #43 on: April 10, 2008, 12:38:33 PM »
I think Deedee just has a keen sense of reading between Linda's garble.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #44 on: April 10, 2008, 12:43:26 PM »
Quote from: Laura Lee on April 10, 2008, 12:38:33 PM
I think Deedee just has a keen sense of reading between Linda's garble.


Forget it, okay, he died.
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #45 on: April 10, 2008, 12:53:08 PM »
Quote from: Pollux on April 10, 2008, 11:11:35 AM
Take a hint. Family and friends didn't want you there.

Nope, I can't put it to rest.


Get this:  I was the only blood relative, his only daughter.  I didn't marry or have kids (or go to University or even the Dentist, ok?)  I came cheap, I cost nothing.

The money doesn't matter, it's just I can't figure out how to get over it unless I save up all my pennies and take a flight to Vancouver and then the  ferry and then the  bus 2 hours up the Island and kill that bitch.

I'll be okay.  I just don't understand.  Maybe she refused to wash his socks and inspect his dick until he re-wrote his will.  It's so against his character.  He wouldv'e looked after me, I know he would, I'm fairly certain that's what he worked so hard all his life for.  Perhaps I was too independent,

or maybe I was off in another foreign country getting laid whilst madly drunk at the time?

only kiddin'
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #46 on: April 10, 2008, 01:02:49 PM »
Better yet,

After four years...Linda just realized she had a father
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #47 on: April 10, 2008, 01:12:21 PM »
Quote from: knny187 on April 10, 2008, 01:02:49 PM
Better yet,

After four years...Linda just realized she had a father


I am so not having that theory. 

I'd prefer to believe that the reason I never found a mate was because my Dad was too much to live up to.  He was in the Navy at 17, an engineer at 25, worked all his life to bring up my family for the rest of his life (emigrating to Canada etc.

He was a world-famous Quartz Crystal Engineer, then he died.  I'd just prefer to believe that he got ill at the end and I wasn't there.  I might still go back and find out how much I missed out on though...  (joking, okay?  I haven't grieved properly yet, I'm still attempting to get over not being invited to the funeral.


Wanna discuss my Mum?  She lives in Cheshire.
xL
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #48 on: April 10, 2008, 01:24:43 PM »
Quote from: xxxLinda on April 10, 2008, 01:12:21 PM

I am so not having that theory. 

I'd prefer to believe that the reason I never found a mate was because my Dad was too much to live up to.  He was in the Navy at 17, an engineer at 25, worked all his life to bring up my family for the rest of his life (emigrating to Canada etc.

He was a world-famous Quartz Crystal Engineer, then he died.  I'd just prefer to believe that he got ill at the end and I wasn't there.  I might still go back and find out how much I missed out on though...  (joking, okay?  I haven't grieved properly yet, I'm still attempting to get over not being invited to the funeral.


Wanna discuss my Mum?  She lives in Cheshire.
xL

He immigrated to Canada.....

Thats not a lot to live up too
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Re: Four years after my Father's death, someone calls me from Canada.
« Reply #49 on: April 10, 2008, 01:26:05 PM »
Quote from: xxxLinda on April 10, 2008, 01:12:21 PM

Wanna discuss my Mum?  She lives in Cheshire.
xL
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