insecurity

[Tapeworm]

if by fag you mean homosexual, no, im not homosexual. i am bisexual. which means i get the best of both worlds..  

Slut

[Tapeworm]

  
Thanks for that.


No.  Honestly I think he's just fucking with us.

[w8m8]

Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.

here's me thinking ... why get into any relationship if you are thinking you can do better ... or is the part where she "figures" it out afterwards and dumps their ass when the better comes along ?

all of it seems a bit immature IMHO 

[MAXX]

*after a hard day at work*






(i.e. trolling getbig/jerking it to gay porn 16 hours straight)

[TrueGrit]

Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.

Is this going out to James001?

[Sara]

here's me thinking ... why get into any relationship if you are thinking you can do better ... or is the part where she "figures" it out afterwards and dumps their ass when the better comes along ?

all of it seems a bit immature IMHO 

I was referring to the insecure person thinking that their significant other can do better than them.  I agree... getting into a relationship believing you can do better is ridiculous and immature (although I'm sure it happens all the time). 

[tbombz]

How old were you when you started feeling attraction for the cock Candi  ?

      an angel 


i was messing around with boys when i was 5...

[Sara]

Is this going out to James001?

That goes out to no one imparticular.  More just a theory based on many experiences and observations.

[avesher]

That goes out to no one imparticular.  More just a theory based on many experiences and observations.

couldn't find that word in any Webster's

[Sara]

couldn't find that word in any Webster's

typos are a real bitch.

[avesher]

I'm a  real bitch.

typo fixed

[chaos]

typo fixed

LOL

[Sara]

typo fixed

good one. 

[chaos]

Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.

So when you dumped james001 did he go on a 4 day tweak bender and stalk you endlessly?

How far away does the restraining order say he has to stay, 100feet or 100 yards?

[Cap]

Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.

This is where the controlling nature comes in.  You always see busted dudes break down their hot gfs and make them think they can't do better.  I saw it a lot in college.

[Sara]

This is where the controlling nature comes in.  You always see busted dudes break down their hot gfs and make them think they can't do better.  I saw it a lot in college.

I still see it a lot. 

[Sara]

So when you dumped james001 did he go on a 4 day tweak bender and stalk you endlessly?

How far away does the restraining order say he has to stay, 100feet or 100 yards?

So far, no restraining orders have been necessary, lol.

[Cap]

I still see it a lot. 

Yeah, I had a few friends who were gorgeous and you wonder about the connection and most seemed trapped.  Unfortunate.

[chaos]

Sounds to me we may have an internet love connection going on here!

Damn Cap even scores over the internet!!!

[Sara]

Yeah, I had a few friends who were gorgeous and you wonder about the connection and most seemed trapped.  Unfortunate.

Some guys know how to make a girl feel less than she is. 

[Tapeworm]

Some guys know how to make a girl feel less than she is. 

Take it easy "O."  Maybe they're just getting what they need.

 

[Sara]

Take it easy "O."  Maybe they're just getting what they need.

 

And what would that be?

[Tapeworm]

You never read The Story of O?

Actually, I'm being semi serious.  A lot of people get off on ego deflation and some take it too far, let it guide them into toxic relationships, etc.

[Sara]

You never read The Story of O?

Actually, I'm being semi serious.  A lot of people get off on ego deflation and some take it too far, let it guide them into toxic relationships, etc.

No, that wasn't on the required reading list when I was in school  lol.  I do know of it, just haven't read it. 

Being in a dominant/submissive relationship is slightly different.  There are two willing people agreeing, on some level, to pre-determined roles.  In this case, I'd bet that both have significant insecurities that are being catered to in some way by these roles.  It may not be healthy, but a situation like that could actually work. 

An overblown ego is also a sign of insecurity.  Those who excessively talk themselves up are usually the most insecure of all.

[BlueDevil]

you've come to the right board to talk about your feelings and emotions

welcome !