Doesn't sound like a very strong relationship dude . . .you should ask her and post what she says word for word. would you abandon your wife if she became crippled?
No i would not, and i am pretty sure that she would not leave me as well. But if she did, i would not blame her, i hope you can see the difference.
A relationship is not about "wanting something", it's about "giving everything". The more you give without wanting something in return, the more you will receive. If you want to much, you won't get anything.
DK are you from Japan?
No, I'm German. My wife is Japanese.