One last question for you.
Do you think it's bad advice to tell your kids to get their education first and not to have sex before marriage?
I am being me and it's sad that you don't get that I have layers and I have never purported to be perfect, yes I have my faults so of course I educate my children with my mistakes. Is that wrong to you?
Help me understand your beef with me.
Okay, I have time now. I don't care if you secretly enjoy pornography, or are living in sin, or commit adultery by being divorced. If those things are wrong, then it's a function of the rigid rules you've set up for yourself, based on your religion. But you've come to a women's board to discuss female sexuality, yes? You've made an assumption that women having sex outside of marriage are basically "meat for men." That's a little weird to me. There are extremes but a whole lot to fill in the middle. Not every woman who has sex outside of marriage feels, or is being, used. You're just projecting your unhealthy attitudes onto others.
I was actually laughing at your pronouncements, which you took the wrong way. How does it work anyway, when you say you'd refuse to contribute to your daughter's marriage if she has sex? Do you keep her locked in the house? Interrogate her about what she's doing with her boyfriend...like, when she's 20? If she falls from grace, do you show up at the wedding and tell everyone why you're not giving her away? Or just not show up? It's silly, and that's why I laughed.