1. Most men who consider themselves attractive are not.
2. The female ideal of attractive men and the man's ideal of attractive men are different.
3. Most men that women consider attractive, other men would laugh at and say are ugly.
4. Most women don't find the male super model 8 pack trim guys to be attractive anymore than they find muscle men attractive.
5. Women care about popularity, what other women think, money, prestige, etc. Women also like douche bags.
6. Final rule to live by...Any men that we men would consider ideal looking or a ladies man..Isn't. Any man that we consider to be a total lame pansy douche bag with no life is much more likely to be a ladies man.