Okay, so I messed up in my relationship with my ex. A GREAT fucking catch she is. She took me on vacations, is hot, smart, successful and laid back. After we broke up I didn't pull the standard pussy bullshit of pleading and begging, etc. I acted cool with her decision and admitted that I messed up (I was too jealous, controlling and critical of her when we dated).
Anyways, it's been several months since the breakup and she only recently got herself on a single chat line. I thought she was going to stay single forever...haha. Anyways, she met this guy she really likes about 3-4 weeks ago. They've been on a few dates and yeah, I know where that's headed. She's reeling him in with her charm and he's biting.
NOW, the reason her and I haven't hooked back up since, is because whenever we got close, she got scared. She thought I'd pull the same shit again that I did when we dated and so her walls came up and she tested. I passed some tests and failed some of them. I passed enough to stay in her life, but not enough for her to want to chase my ass..
I was at her place for supper last Saturday night (being the friend...but being cool and trying to seduce in an indirect manner) and I was getting somewhere, but when she realized she was letting go, she started crying and pulled back. She told me this new guy who she met a month ago is really nice and they started dating. SO, instead of being cool, I made a dick out of myself and got a bit jealous on her ass...
OKAY, here's the question and this is directed at the BIG PLAYERS on this board. The guy's who know their SHIT. I have never had a problem seducing a girl who is IN a relationship. I've had many girls break up with their bf's, fiance's and even husbands for me, but this situation is different. My ex KNOWS me. I'm not NEW like this guy she just met. He gets full access to her. She's OPEN to him.
HOW do I, seeing I still have access to her mind and thoughts (seeing she hasn't canceled me out of her life yet), SABOTAGE her relationship with this new guy who she likes. I'm talking about manipulative tactics. REAL UNDERHANDED SHIT that WORKS??? I realize it could take time, but WHAT WORKS?? How do I get her to want to see me (behind his back) and make HIM jealous of the fact that she is still in touch with her ex? How can I work that angle? How can I make her see him in a bad way? How can I turn things in my favor? DON'T be telling me to go NO CONTACT. That shit doesn't work. I'm open to ALL suggestions. Even a series of moves. Like a phone call saying this or that or asking her this or that to throw her off and then do something else and finally, she'll feel TORN and realize that even though this new guy is nice and exciting, she can't let me GO.
Alright guys, give me your best.
alright,, erase everything you read until now,,the getibig fellas are good guy ALL OF THEM are good guys many of them are sensetive guys and they try to help you best way they can,,from what i read some gave you good advice but! if its americano woman which i suspect it is then nothing will work,,
there is one way to get americano girl back,,and im going to share with you this way,, so take pen andpaper or paste or do whatever you need to do ,,
first and formost the interaction between you and her should stop on a regular basis an americano woman who have feelings for you will NOT keep in contact with you after break up she will dissapear THATS HOW AMERICANO WOMEN WORK ,,if they have feelings for you and it is ending they will break it and dissapear with no call no communication what so ever ,,
what you need to do is the following,,after you try to contact her and she wont answer ,,,which this alaso should be kept to few days maybe 3 days in a good seperation between those days of about 10 days,,,in those 3 days you need to make sure you make your point across ,,the americano woman which if she is hot and from poor backround poor as in abused...she will not respond she wil be tough and hold it and already have other guys in mind,,,you need to be done with that phase and go to the phase 2
in phase 2 you lay back and wait,,while fuckin and meeting and seeing that there are girls way better than her! becaue to every hot hoe there is a better hot hoe learn it! ,,,during this time you text her one every month something simple but smart she still will not respond and thats when you fall for a new girl and you will because again that hoe you been with you may love her but! with americano girl always someone better come and want you since they are very insecure even the most sucessful are very insecure,,,then you already with the new woman and ONLY THEN
ONLY THEN WHEN YOU ARE WITH THE NEEW WOMAN,,THE AMERICANO EX WILL HAVE HER ANTENA UP AND CONTACT YOU FOR A RETURN OR TO SEE HOW YOU DOING OR TO TRY AGAIN ,,,THATS HOW AMERICANO GIRLS ARE ,,IT HAS TO BE 4 MONTHS AT THE LEAST FOR THEM TO MAKE A MOVE,,,THEY HAVE THEIR WAYS TO MAKE YOU KNOW THAT THERE IS A CHANCE,,THEY WILL NEVER SAY ITS THE FINAL END WHEN THEY BREAK UP ,,,THEY WILL NEVER SAY YOU WONT HAVE THEM BACK ,,,AMERICANO GIRLS IF THEY ARE HOT LIKE TO KEEP THEIR OPTIONS OPEN INCASE OF BREAK UP AND THEY WILL ONLY MAKE THE CONTACT BACK AFTER 4 MONTHS OR MORE,,SO AFTER INITIAL TRY TO GET HER BACK FAILED AND IT WILL FAIL YOU WAIT,,,NOW YOU WILL BE WITH ANOTHER GIRL AND MOST LIKLEY LIKE HER AND MAYBE LOVE HER AND THEN THE AMERICANO EX WILL POP UP WHEN YOU ARE NOT READY ,,,
WHEN THIS HAPPENS AND IT ALWAYS DOES YOU NEED TO THINK WELL WHAT YOU DO BECAUSE THOSE ARE TROUBLES FOR LIFE,,,AMERICANO GIRLS OF THAT KIND ARE USUALLY ABUSED GIRLS WHO GOT RAPED AND MOLESTED ,,PILL HEADS ETC ETC ,,,THEY SEE SEX AS CONTROL THING AND THEY WANT GUY INCHARGE ,,THEY NEED THE TYPE OF COCK THAT TORE THEM APART IF NOT THEY DONT FEEL RIGHT ,,, SO SHE WILL TRY TO COME BACK AND THEN YOULL HAVE YOUR SAY
BUT FOR NOW YOU LAY OFF ONCE A MONTH OR ONCE EVERY 2 MONTHS ,,,HAPPY BIRTHDAY THINGY OR WHATEVER SMART THING YOU WANT TO SAY TO MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE WASNT DIRT FOR YOU BUT THATS IT,,OFCOURSE SECONF PHASE CONTACT SHOUDL ONLY BE DONE VIA TEXTING!!! NEVER VIA PHONE SHE WILL CALL YOU ! YOU DONT CALL HER NO MATTER FUCKIN WHAT!
OFCOURSE THE NEW GIRL WILL END UP BEING 100 TIMES BETTER AND THE AMERICANO EX WILL END UP BECOMING STALKER IN A WAY OR IF NOT STALKER WILL REALLY DO WHATEVER SHE CAN TO HAVE YOU BACK AND THAT INCLUDES FACING YOU FACE TO FACE ON HER TERM WHEN SHE IS READY,,
GH15 RECOMENDATION = DO NOT TAKE HER BACK EVER IF YOU DONT WANT TO MARRY HER AND DONT LOVE HER,,,IF YOU LOVE HER THEN GIVE HER HELL BUT TAKE HER BACK
gh15 approved
