i dont think my kids would be fucked up, id be fine with a kid with disabilities , i know god will guide the best path
Fair enough man, if you can still be thinking that way after a year or 5 with this woman then maybe you totally have a point?
Doesn't it scare you that you might change your mind in like 2 years and wanna bang loads of hoes and have zero financial burden, which would all be really bad for the kid? Not bashing, just personally I would struggle to be certain unless I'd been feeling that way for a looong time!