I brought this up around a mixed group of men and women to see what they'd say
they basically say it depends on the person doing the coming up
and they all agreed having old and or ugly ones you wouldn't want is worse when they come up to you
LOL is that really a suprise?
of course its not good when an ugly or old person comes up and hits on you...
Like mom said there is nothing wrong with saying "how are your?" thats basically all we are saying I believe
thing is its nice to be approached by a girl you dont have to jump our bones but being the conversation starter is a refreshing change.