Because this is a bodybuilding board the guys here like their men big. So you would be, like myself, considered a twink. But in the real world, and even the muscle men here know it whether they admit it or not, being lean and in shape with some muscles is considered the most attractive. I'm sure some women like big muscles but they are a small minority. In fact, because of steroids and the reputation bodybuilding has, the public in general looks at very big muscle men with suspicion and even some derision. And those that do admire big muscles are primarily men. So take your choice.
Zane once said that the most important aspect to a man's physique is broad shoulders and a small define waist. Even if you don't have big muscles you'll always look good in clothes. But I think the waist line is the deal breaker. You can have a developed chest, shoulders, arms but if you have a fat gut everything falls apart.
In the real world, twinks rule!
