How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?

[Danimal77]

remember that she's 27.  and a teacher.


She's probably itching to find Mr Right.  She's looking at 30, has no man and no kids, and no prospects if she's on match.com hitting on getbiggers.

So while she holds the vajj power, you hold the power of being a single 32 year old (with standard getbigger qualities).  Treat her as an equal 100%, and you might get some place.  At this point, maybe she's looking for a partner with whom to take on the great challenges of life.  She wants a MAN she can show off to the other teachers.

It's funny, but most of her girlfriends are other teachers she works with and she called me Sunday afternoon (to firm up plans for that night) while having brunch with 5 of them. They all knew she was seeing me. She lost her mom to cancer recently. She doesn't talk to her Dad. It's just her and her brother and honestly, she seems like a genuinely nice girl. She didn't have a hint of sarcasm in her. Just NICE. That impressed me, seeing I've been on dates with condescending and patronizing twats since Christmas..

[Danimal77]

Yup. Women love to show off their man to their friends. Especially if the man is good looking (CHECK), well educated (CHECK), and has a good job (CHECK). Its almost like a competition.

[240 is Back]

I was a teacher for 7 years.  Elementary ed major.  I dated a lot of teachers.  Married one.

If she's like 99% of elementary school teachers, she is looking for CONSISTENCY.  She wants a guy who looks good, but won't cheat.  She absoltely does NOT want to get played, dumped, divorced, etc. 

She loves kids - she is 27 so her body's clock is saying she's probably ready for babies of her own. 

You need to present yourself as intelligent, stable, clean, professional - someone who won't embarass her at a PTA meeting with a prison tat, dipping tobacco, concealing a weapon, looking at the slutty young teachers, or playing the fool.  You sound a little timid, but that might work well for you here.

Keep us posted on your progress.  She's probably a little run off because you don't have a car.  Impress her with your plans for the future, the path you plan to take, etc.  I was a teacher earning my masters, teaching night school, and running the schools' computer lab.  I drove a piece o shit car and lived in a trailer - and I did very well becuase they saw future potential with me.

Good luck brah.

[chaos]

Still with this shit?

LOL at all the casanova getbiggers giving advice over the internet to some geek that can't get laid.

[Vince B]

Whoever falls in love first loses! If a gal wants you she will let you know. When they are no longer interested they even stop forwarding jokes!

Guys with not much experience wouldn't know good advice from bad.

[jtsunami]

Whoever falls in love first loses! If a gal wants you she will let you know. When they are no longer interested they even stop forwarding jokes!

Guys with not much experience wouldn't know good advice from bad.

A wise man has spoken.  Great post Vince.

jt

[chaos]

A wise man has spoken.  Great post Vince.

jt

Shut the fuck up, idiot.

[Danimal77]

I was a teacher for 7 years.  Elementary ed major.  I dated a lot of teachers.  Married one.

If she's like 99% of elementary school teachers, she is looking for CONSISTENCY.  She wants a guy who looks good, but won't cheat.  She absoltely does NOT want to get played, dumped, divorced, etc. 

She loves kids - she is 27 so her body's clock is saying she's probably ready for babies of her own. 

You need to present yourself as intelligent, stable, clean, professional - someone who won't embarass her at a PTA meeting with a prison tat, dipping tobacco, concealing a weapon, looking at the slutty young teachers, or playing the fool.  You sound a little timid, but that might work well for you here.

Keep us posted on your progress.  She's probably a little run off because you don't have a car.  Impress her with your plans for the future, the path you plan to take, etc.  I was a teacher earning my masters, teaching night school, and running the schools' computer lab.  I drove a piece o shit car and lived in a trailer - and I did very well becuase they saw future potential with me.

Good luck brah.

She definitely loves kids. When she was up in my apartment, I had a photo album on the coffee table. My sister had dropped it off recently. Anyways, she looked at some pics and as soon as she got to the ones where I was a kid, she was oogling and awing all over them....

She said she knew she wanted to work with kids since she's been a kid herself. She teaches grades 3 and 5.

I'm debating what to wear when she passes by tomorrow at 3:00pm. I told her I'll meet her outside of my building at that time. Am I going jeans and a shirt, or dress pants and a shirt? I've only ever had afternoon dates with actual girlfriends. Kind of out of my element on this one. Not sure if this should be treated as DATE #2 or not.

[240 is Back]

i'd wear jeans.  then over the date, dazzle her with your plans for the future

[Montague]

Dan:
I think you’ve analyzed and speculated every single possible scenario that could happen.
Therefor, you should be ready for anything.

Don’t worry about what to “call” tomorrow‘s rendezvous.
Just meet with her.
You can both get to know each other a little more by - hopefully - being yourselves.
And, by the end, you’ll both know if you want to move forward to date #2 (or #2: subset - a, or whatever you want to call it).

[Vince B]

The thing is you need a good brain. No one can tell you what to do or say. Later you can think about it and wonder if you could have done things differently.

If she enjoyed herself being with you then you know you are okay and attractive to some women and let her give you some feedback. Sometimes

ignoring a woman is effective. Most of the time talking is the best thing to do. Play by ear and make her feel you think she is special. Good luck.

[HTexan]

load up

[Danimal77]

DAMN, the weather is CRAP outside today. It will definitely rain within the next 3 hours. I was planning on taking her for a walk on a mountain. Anything outdoors will have to be ruled out now. I didn't want a sitdown coffee thing this afternoon. Any suggestions on where I could take her for the 2 hour get together (probably from 3-5pm)?

[Tapeworm]

DAMN, the weather is CRAP outside today. It will definitely rain within the next 3 hours. I was planning on taking her for a walk on a mountain. Anything outdoors will have to be ruled out now. I didn't want a sitdown coffee thing this afternoon. Any suggestions on where I could take her for the 2 hour get together (probably from 3-5pm)?

High brow: Gallery or museum

Low brow: The mall

Or you could take her to the zoo, Rock.

[Danimal77]

High brow: Gallery or museum

Low brow: The mall

Or you could take her to the zoo, Rock.

I have 2 hours, door to door. Museum is a cool thing for a weekend afternoon, when there is more time to kill.

The zoo is another great idea, but again, it's a 30 minute drive from me. Again, I have 2 hours door to door.

The mall? Not going to even touch that one..

Any other suggestions?

[newmom]

I have 2 hours, door to door. Museum is a cool thing for a weekend afternoon, when there is more time to kill.

The zoo is another great idea, but again, it's a 30 minute drive from me. Again, I have 2 hours door to door.

The mall? Not going to even touch that one..

Any other suggestions?

Jesus you men and your testosterone.

Danimal, take her to a nice cafe or the like for coffee or tea, or whatever she may like to drink in that line. How about just getting to know her better.

[Danimal77]

Jesus you men and your testosterone.

Danimal, take her to a nice cafe or the like for coffee or tea, or whatever she may like to drink in that line. How about just getting to know her better.

Our first date we spoke for 4 hours non-stop. It was great and easy to talk to her. I wanted this 2 hour date to be short and FUN. Thinking of suggesting either shooting some pool or maybe going bowling. I'll give her the option of the two.

[newmom]

Our first date we spoke for 4 hours non-stop. It was great and easy to talk to her. I wanted this 2 hour date to be short and FUN. Thinking of suggesting either shooting some pool or maybe going bowling. I'll give her the option of the two.

hmmmmm pretty good ideas, but if she has freshly manicured nails then bowling is NOT BUENO. But of the two, I think bowling

[w8m8]

You have anyplace like Dave and Buster's around you ?

I'd play air hockey or darts before bowling .. juss sayin' 

[newmom]

You have anyplace like Dave and Buster's around you ?

I'd play air hockey or darts before bowling .. juss sayin' 

thank god more estrogen to the rescue

[Danimal77]

You have anyplace like Dave and Buster's around you ?

I'd play air hockey or darts before bowling .. juss sayin' 

Yeah and air hockey is fun. It's really competitive...

[Vince B]

What happened on the second date? Just show her this thread and you will be fine!

[tbombz]

Our first date we spoke for 4 hours non-stop. It was great and easy to talk to her. I wanted this 2 hour date to be short and FUN. Thinking of suggesting either shooting some pool or maybe going bowling. I'll give her the option of the two.

naw fuck that.. take her to a park somewhere.. or to a trail.. just get outdoors and by yourselves..  free, easy, perfect for whateveryou wanted to do... gett o know her better/get frisky..

[Croatch]

It seems my type and yours, are different.  The less a female talks, usually the better.  Not a mute, but chances are, her stories will bore me.  I usually like to spend about 60% of the time on the first date going over my gains in the gym and what my diet is like, my cool car, and how my balls are large because I don't take steroids.
10% of the time, I'll let her talk about xyz, listening to about 3% of it.
The last 30% of time, I spend getting a good visual image of her locked in my brain.  In case I don't hit it, I can use the embedded ram to bring up her rack as I'm beating it later.

How'd it go Dan?

[quadzilla456]

It seems my type and yours, are different.  The less a female talks, usually the better.  Not a mute, but chances are, her stories will bore me.  I usually like to spend about 60% of the time on the first date going over my gains in the gym and what my diet is like, my cool car, and how my balls are large because I don't take steroids.
10% of the time, I'll let her talk about xyz, listening to about 3% of it.
The last 30% of time, I spend getting a good visual image of her locked in my brain.  In case I don't hit it, I can use the embedded ram to bring up her rack as I'm beating it later.

How'd it go Dan?

Sounds like you strike out with trannies quite a lot!