Author Topic: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date? (Read 28183 times)

Quickerblade · « **Reply #275 on:** June 09, 2010, 08:48:08 PM »

Ofcourse there is no right or wrong, you have to do actions that suit you and make you comfortable, Im a prick, it works for me.

at the same time im not attached to my mobile phone (cellphone) i hate people trying to contact me all the time.

Azure · « **Reply #276 on:** June 09, 2010, 08:54:14 PM »

Quote from: chaos on June 09, 2010, 08:46:11 PM

I send my wife flowers sometimes, just for sport.

That's sweet! I knew there were *SOME* decent men on this board

Married is different from first date!

Quickerblade · « **Reply #277 on:** June 09, 2010, 08:57:00 PM »

Im seeing a girl named bethany on tuesday, i can almost predict the ending, i have it visualised as if it just happened, i just have to wait to that night.

Friendly convo
glass of red/white wine
back rub
penetration.

chaos · « **Reply #278 on:** June 09, 2010, 09:03:01 PM »

Quote from: Azure on June 09, 2010, 08:54:14 PM

That's sweet! I knew there were *SOME* decent men on this board

Married is different from first date!

I hope you got tits, if not you=Outed.

Tapeworm · « **Reply #279 on:** June 09, 2010, 09:52:07 PM »

Quote from: chaos on June 09, 2010, 08:46:11 PM

I send my wife flowers sometimes, just for sport.

Before or after you do the ironing, Marty?

Parker · « **Reply #280 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:47:42 AM »

Quote from: Azure on June 09, 2010, 08:43:05 PM

I totally disagree. Women (not girls) HATE game playing. If you have a really good time then tell her. That's not a punk move. Sending flowers after the date is a bitch move.

When does one send flowers...One time, for a picnic date i planned, I had blue flowers (everything was blue, the plates, fork handles,etc), she said I gained mad points for the flowers.

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #281 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:52:34 AM »

Quote from: Parker on June 10, 2010, 12:47:42 AM

When does one send flowers...One time, for a picnic date i planned, I had blue flowers (everything was blue, the plates, fork handles,etc), she said I gained mad points for the flowers.

You got time flowers just right if its wrong timing a girl will get pissed by them, suprise is the best tactic out of nowhere = The Art of war.

Tapeworm · « **Reply #282 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:55:53 AM »

Quote from: Parker on June 10, 2010, 12:47:42 AM

everything was blue

Even your balls by the sound of it.

newmom · « **Reply #283 on:** June 10, 2010, 02:06:18 AM »

Quote from: Mr Nobody on June 10, 2010, 12:52:34 AM

You got time flowers just right if its wrong timing a girl will get pissed by them, suprise is the best tactic out of nowhere = The Art of war.

and you need to send them to her job

The Wizard of Truth · « **Reply #284 on:** June 10, 2010, 02:10:51 AM »

I like sex

lvtolft · « **Reply #285 on:** June 10, 2010, 05:24:48 AM »

Quote from: Okami on June 10, 2010, 02:10:51 AM

I like sex

Excellent post!
Now, all of you need to go view JNN"s new thread and learn a thing or 2.

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #286 on:** June 10, 2010, 06:21:49 AM »

Quote from: newmom on June 10, 2010, 02:06:18 AM

and you need to send them to her job

What if she had no job?

newmom · « **Reply #287 on:** June 10, 2010, 06:24:10 AM »

Quote from: Mr Nobody on June 10, 2010, 06:21:49 AM

What if she had no job?

then to her house. Listen ladies like flowers I think its in our DNA or something

CalvinH · « **Reply #288 on:** June 10, 2010, 06:47:05 AM »

Glad there are so many experts here on GB

Tapeworm · « **Reply #289 on:** June 10, 2010, 07:04:06 AM »

At Getbig, we're all about getting you laid!

io856 · « **Reply #290 on:** June 10, 2010, 07:08:46 AM »

Azure · « **Reply #291 on:** June 10, 2010, 07:29:45 AM »

Quote from: Parker on June 10, 2010, 12:47:42 AM

When does one send flowers...One time, for a picnic date i planned, I had blue flowers (everything was blue, the plates, fork handles,etc), she said I gained mad points for the flowers.

That's cute, but I wouldn't send flowers after the first date. I think it's a little much. At that point, most women are still trying to gauge how they came across.

But flowers for a picnic date is really cute.

Parker · « **Reply #292 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:21:21 PM »

Quote from: Azure on June 10, 2010, 07:29:45 AM

That's cute, but I wouldn't send flowers after the first date. I think it's a little much. At that point, most women are still trying to gauge how they came across.

But flowers for a picnic date is really cute.

Yeah, she thought that it was the shit, and let me tell you, she was the shit...but, unfortunately, I am not a baller, so Parker Lewis, did lose...

Azure · « **Reply #293 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:29:00 PM »

Quote from: Parker on June 10, 2010, 12:21:21 PM

Yeah, she thought that it was the shit, and let me tell you, she was the shit...but, unfortunately, I am not a baller, so Parker Lewis, did lose...

Oh well....On to the next.

We as women can be so stupid sometimes! A guy who is THAT caring and considerate is hard to come by.

newmom · « **Reply #294 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:30:53 PM »

Quote from: Azure on June 10, 2010, 12:29:00 PM

Oh well....On to the next.

We as women can be so stupid sometimes! A guy who is THAT caring and considerate is hard to come by.

Not only stupid but nuts as well...and yes nice guys like that very tough to come by

Azure · « **Reply #295 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:33:43 PM »

Quote from: newmom on June 10, 2010, 12:30:53 PM

Not only stupid but nuts as well...and yes nice guys like that very tough to come by

You got it.

Sometimes I look at all the stupid stuff I did and think WTF was I thinking! It's something though...the guys that have all that flash and everyone wants cause he is a baller...look him up in 10 years.

In most cases, I'm happy I dodged a bullet.

johnnynoname · « **Reply #296 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:34:15 PM »

Quote from: io856 on June 10, 2010, 07:08:46 AM

do you know her?
does she like over-tanned,big nosed douchebags?

funk51 · « **Reply #297 on:** June 10, 2010, 12:55:31 PM »

Quote from: Danimal77 on May 17, 2010, 08:08:28 PM

Had a really good first date with this girl last night. Best one I've had in over 2 years. Broke up with my ex of 1.5 years last October. Been on this single chat line since December and I've had one and after another shitty dates with a string of different girls. So, last night, I went in with an open/positive attitude, but with NO expectations and DAMN son, I was blown the fuck away. We have a lot in common and the chemistry was there. It really felt 2-sided. I was the second guy she met off the site. She said she saw this other guy a few days earlier, but is having a lot more fun with me. She wanted to be honest and you know what? I respected her for it...

Anyway, it was fun, chill and easy going. She even came up to my place at the end of the date, but because I liked her, I made out with her and that was that, confident that there'll be more in the future..

Alright, so I'm here tonight, wondering what you guys think in regards to how long YOU would wait to call her? She is definitely the kind of girl who likes the guy to take the lead and initiate. Having spent 4 hours with her last night, I got that impression. So, the next move has to be from me. I want to see her again. I was thinking of this Wednesday night. Is calling the day of, for that night, too short notice? It's either that, or I call her tomorrow, asking her for Wednesday. Is waiting 2 days too eager?

Anyways, give me your thoughts guys. How long would you wait and how would you ask her out for a second date? Just direct? This girl has quality and gf material written all over her.

i'd wait at least five years that way she won't find out what an asshole you really are. hope this helps.

Palpatine Q · « **Reply #298 on:** June 10, 2010, 01:36:10 PM »

Funny how Danimal's attitude has changed now that he "cracked that wide open'.......he was crying a like a schoolgirl

Quickerblade is just soooo cool as well, he's my hero the way he handles the bitches

Parker · « **Reply #299 on:** June 10, 2010, 01:54:25 PM »

Quote from: Azure on June 10, 2010, 12:29:00 PM

Oh well....On to the next.

We as women can be so stupid sometimes! A guy who is THAT caring and considerate is hard to come by.

Yes, she moved in with a fat fvck 20+ yrs her senior, cause he had a big house. A few yrs and a couple of beatings later, she's a raving drunk...

It's funny, most of the women that I have delt with, have
ended up in relationships that would make Dr. Phil cry. And I
say to them now, "uh, uh not me..."

thank you for the compliment, Azure and Groink.