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Re: just so you know..
« Reply #25 on: May 18, 2010, 12:44:05 PM »
time to ungay this shit

damn thats hot

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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #26 on: May 18, 2010, 01:07:01 PM »
Wrong.

The only difference between porn now and back in the day is the openness about it. People were horny freaks centuries ago like they still are today. How do you think many families had 5 + kids at the turn of the century?

Anyways, I had a conversation a few weeks back with a retired and obese school teacher at the cigar lounge. It was hilarious to see few other old timers chime in on the topic of pussy destroying in the 60s.

These old men who are in their early 70s now were all talking about how cars these days are pieces of shit, not because of crappy materials and manufacturing...but because none of the front seats are big enough to fuckk chicks in. ...

the moral of the story is people were and always will be horny. The only difference is that now it's much more accepted to talk and approach people for sex than during the time of our grandparents.
they had a way more limited access to porn back then. They had one, but it was way limited. They jerked off a lot alone using their imagination or with a picture, and they were more encouraged to meet women to fuck em if they wanted to obtain what they desired... Once they met they were actualy HAVING REAL LIFE SEXUAL INTERCOURSES WITH EVERYTHING REAL IT INVOLVES... a lot more different than spending 1 hour a day -if not more- jerking off alone for months, years...decades... and it was a lot less diversified than it is nowadays too.. nowadays a 12 y/o can access to -and become addicted to- every single stuff that is avaialable if he has an access to the internet that is not controlled by his parents.

You re comparing different situations. Yes people always had sex, but it's the "way we re having sex nowadays that changed, and not for good. Something smells fishy -pardon the pun- with what our urban capitalistic and materialistic occidental societies are promoting , without knowing the side effects.

I think you get addicted to the perople you see in the vids, they are the people you want to have sex with, and if you cant have sex with these people, you will spend your whoole life trying to find em or you ll become unsatisfyied by your current partner if she doesnt look or act like that character you want to fuck. problem is everyone's different, so you re chasing after something that you cant obtain. And even in the case you would actually fuck the woman you seen in the video -or man for many homos on here- it's not even going to be how you thought it would be either! You re looking for something that doesnt exist, and you re getting bored of what truly exists and is available.
Lots of mental distortions are developing due to porn addiction. It in fact affects the way you fuck. it can improve it -you learn stuff- but even this is questionable, since asking directly your partner what she wants and telling her what you want should suffice -but not everyone has the skill to communicate efficiently-, or deteriorate it -you re not satisfied with what you have and always more or different than what you have- if you abuse internet porn.



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« Reply #27 on: May 18, 2010, 01:11:18 PM »
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.
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« Reply #28 on: May 18, 2010, 01:13:10 PM »
I owe a lot to internet porn.  Compared to years ago, I'm much better at whacking it these days.
Thanks.
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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #29 on: May 18, 2010, 01:13:41 PM »
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.

Poor übermann  :D
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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #30 on: May 18, 2010, 01:15:46 PM »
Who the hell is this Undermann-character anyways?

Is he thinking he is doing us any favors?
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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #31 on: May 18, 2010, 01:16:38 PM »
i d knew most of you would come with bullshits arguments but hey, if you can think twice about it and have some useful readings just because of my thread i will consider my job done.
Dont want to give any lessons... just a warning...



You do not learn how to please women when watching porn, only how to please yourself. You do not learn what real life relationships with women are, you dont leartn how to communicate either, you only learn how to dominate em by focusing on your own needs without having a clue about what they think or feel. Especially when they re submissive, young , inexeprienced. Basically you teach em in this case things that are negative to both of you in the long term; basically you re not aware of the importance of your role as a sexual "mentor" and may endanger the psychological stability of your partner which will eventually lead to suffering in the end for either her or both of you. You also tend to want more and more, and happen to never be satisfied and always looking for an edge that never comes. Basically you dont take pleasure in the act in itslef at all over time.You re dqamaging the initial pleasure you had  in the first place over time. You re destroying your pleasure slowly without noticing. I'm not saying real sex nor masturbating is bad at all -it cannot be "bad"-, i'm just saying that the way people are having sex, thinking, feeling it,  being influenced by a daily consuption of internet porn is getting them more and more troubled, and sexologists will have a lot of work in the next decades. Most of the time men are the ones watching porn and having problems with their sexual life over time with their sex partners, when their female partners who dont watch porn simply dont get it; it means they re not conditionned so dont feel any suffering while their male partners who expose themselves to these conditionnings are developping different kinds of physical and psychological forms of suffering.
You get obsessed about the sexual part of the relationship and tend to lose any interest in the other parts of it that are devaluated in your eyes even if they keep being important for your partner -who stays balanced in his view of the relationship- all that matters for you is to your satisfy your impulse that gets bigger and bigger over time as you feed it all by yourself. Basically you become the slave of an habit you developed all by yourself and that ultimately makes you unhappy when you could actually be happy if you werent obsessed, addicted, and able to see how the other parts of the relationship are as important as the sexual part of it.

You know there has to be a problem when you ve done it all but still feel deeply unsatisfied and wanting for more...

Addiction is not a thing to joke with.

I wont even mention the fact youths are getting an access to internet porn sooner than ever which makes em prone to addiction very early...which means more difficulties to get rid of em later once they have become disfunctional adults....

addictions only happen to mentally weak people.....its not genetic......its just a very stupid, and worthless person...

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« Reply #32 on: May 18, 2010, 01:21:12 PM »
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.
as usual, lot of young unexeperienced morons pretending to know it all always trying to save face and pretend when older people like myself who are in their 30 s or 40s and others on here will understand what im talking about. lol at thinking you re in charge of anything when you re between 16 and 30. Just because you believe in your own ignorance and show it off constantly proves you have a lot to learn.


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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #33 on: May 18, 2010, 01:23:08 PM »
John Mayer is a weirdo if he would rather beat off that get pussy- new or old ::)

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« Reply #34 on: May 18, 2010, 01:24:27 PM »
addictions only happen to mentally weak people.....its not genetic......its just a very stupid, and worthless person...

bench
define 'mentally weak' ? lol...good luck with that one.

where in hell did i say being prone to any addiction is genetical? actually it's not innate it s acquired/learned depending on what conditionnings you ve been subject  to in your childhood and adolescence. Basically you re shaped by your surroundings without having any control over em for the first part of your life until you reach your 20s.

Fact is everything is a conditionning. Some are better than others, some can ruin your life if you dont find a way to reverse/substitute em soon enough, especially when you dont have the intelectual capacity to identify them as being harmful.

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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #35 on: May 18, 2010, 01:35:28 PM »
as usual, lot of young unexeperienced morons pretending to know it all always trying to save face and pretend when older people like myself who are in their 30 s or 40s and others on here will understand what im talking about. lol at thinking you re in charge of anything when you re between 16 and 30. Just because you believe in your own ignorance and show it off constantly proves you have a lot to learn.



Please describe briefly what sexuality is and how much of it is too much and why. This kind of discussion/thinking is not exactly unique to this time period alone you know so stop thinking you're bringing something revolutionary to the table.
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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #36 on: May 18, 2010, 01:40:06 PM »
Please describe briefly what sexuality is and how much of it is too much and why. This kind of discussion/thinking is not exactly unique to this time period alone you know so stop thinking you're bringing something revolutionary to the table.
Sexuality has 3 functions; reproductive, social and anxiolitic.
there's what brings a feeling of satisfaction -well being- to yourself without hurting the others and if possible, also improve their own well being in the process, and there's what brings a feeling of unsatisfaction - frustration- to yourself and others and hurts everyone in the process leading to anger and psychological/physical suffering for everyone. (same applies to everything, not just sex. )

Any cognition or behaviors that leads to one's suffering is a problem for the whole society which will have to find a counter-cognition / counter-behavior in order to preserve, maintain it's integrity for the benefit of all its members.


And do your researches by yourself, Im not going to regurgitate 60+ books i ve read to you just to please you especially when getting nothing in return.

Im saying porn addiction is a real danger based on what ive read/studied and my personnal life experience, and you re saying 'no it isnt' based on.... ?


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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #37 on: May 18, 2010, 01:52:26 PM »
there's what brings a feeling of satisfaction -well being- to yourself without hurting the others and if possible, also improve their own well being in the process, and there's what brings a feeling of unsatisfaction - frustration- to yourself and others and hurts everyone in the process leading to anger and psychological/physical suffering.

same applies to everything, not just sex.

As someone mentioned real harmful addiction is only privileged to a select few that usually have issues to begin with. With that said, humans are addicted to sex, it makes us who we are. There's no way to get rid of that besides neutering yourself which is a bit extreme I'd say. Our sex drive has about the same power as our craving for food and that says a lot. People even shagged in the WWII concentration camps. Look at roman catholic priests, look at muslims going to "legal" brothels etc etc. To deny our sex drive is just gonna make matters worse.

Porn is just one of many ways to release ourselves from the urge. Some people don't even use porn but still masturbate frequently. Some people have a lot of actual sex frequently. No matter the outlet the urge usually follows the same pattern.

To say that someone or a majority of the people have a sex addiction is hypocritical at best. When the sex urge really interferes and disrupts your life to the point of being helpless then sure, do something about it. For 99,99% of the population this is not the case.

EDIT: Epic post edit you little shit.
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« Reply #38 on: May 18, 2010, 02:07:12 PM »
As someone mentioned real harmful addiction is only privileged to a select few that usually have issues to begin with. With that said, humans are addicted to sex, it makes us who we are. There's no way to get rid of that besides neutering yourself which is a bit extreme I'd say. Our sex drive has about the same power as our craving for food and that says a lot. People even shagged in the WWII concentration camps. Look at roman catholic priests, look at muslims going to "legal" brothels etc etc. To deny our sex drive is just gonna make matters worse.

Porn is just one of many ways to release ourselves from the urge. Some people don't even use porn but still masturbate frequently. Some people have a lot of actual sex frequently. No matter the outlet the urge usually follows the same pattern.

To say that someone or a majority of the people have a sex addiction is hypocritical at best. When the sex urge really interferes and disrupts your life to the point of being helpless then sure, do something about it. For 99,99% of the population this is not the case.
do you know the amount of people who find themselves in this situation? are you sure they re only representing 0,01 % of the western population?
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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #39 on: May 18, 2010, 02:09:41 PM »
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.

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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #40 on: May 18, 2010, 02:18:23 PM »
do you know the amount of people who find themselves in this situation? are you sure they re only representing 0,01 % of the western population?
Please.

Well in that case I'm pretty sure your definition of addiction is way different from ours, at least when it comes to sexuality. I can't remember the last time I showed up late to work because I simply had to rub one off ::)
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Re: internet porn...just so you know..
« Reply #41 on: May 18, 2010, 02:19:24 PM »
I've deliberately been watching a minimum of internet porn over the last couple of months. It has helped me think less about sex, which was getting too much. I thought so much about sex that it took my attention from more important things.

I think watching too much internet porn is like watching a cooking show on TV even if you are not hungry... it will make you crave what you see.

I don't judge what other people do, but I am more balanced in my thinking now that I've cut down on porn.

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« Reply #42 on: May 18, 2010, 02:28:52 PM »
Actually, what all of you have said is correct. Pretty much goes down like this, use don't abuse it. But, our society is about extremes, not about moderation, so most abuse it. I gotta find me F$$k partner...

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Re: just so you know..
« Reply #43 on: May 18, 2010, 02:32:17 PM »
no such thing as sex addiction....just a lot of human nature, and knowing what you want going around...

bench

I agree with this 1000%

fact in this matter is that their is no such thing as "sex addiction"

humans are animals
animals are meant to reproduce
sex is the only way to reproduce

we think that our "jobs" are to direct traffic or do taxes or whatever

however, our REAL job is to have sex and reproduce



therefore, "sex addiction" is just psycho-babble

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« Reply #44 on: May 18, 2010, 03:07:25 PM »
Yes and No...JNN.

Cavemen fucked......but they didnt snort coke all night and jerk off to other cavemen fucking on the net...Ha ha

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« Reply #45 on: May 18, 2010, 03:13:24 PM »
Yes and No...JNN.

Cavemen fucked......but they didnt snort coke all night and jerk off to other cavemen fucking on the net...Ha ha
no, they chewed on coca leaves and waited for the technology to happen ;D

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« Reply #46 on: May 18, 2010, 03:14:22 PM »
Yes and No...JNN.

Cavemen fucked......but they didnt snort coke all night and jerk off to other cavemen fucking on the net...Ha ha
No, one that's gay and two it should be "cavemen and cavewomen fucking on the cave wall"

Actually there are drawings of cavemen looking or appearing to look ready to violate a " wild ass", and I'm talking about the Equine ones..

 

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« Reply #47 on: May 18, 2010, 04:09:47 PM »
No, one that's gay and two it should be "cavemen and cavewomen fucking on the cave wall"

Actually there are drawings of cavemen looking or appearing to look ready to violate a " wild ass", and I'm talking about the Equine ones..

 


HaHaHa...... ;D

i know, i should have wrote "cavepeople"

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« Reply #48 on: May 18, 2010, 04:15:21 PM »

HaHaHa...... ;D

i know, i should have wrote "cavepeople"
There is a erotic comicbook series called Cavebang, look it up. Basically it has modernday people thinking about what cavepeople would do. So,for example you have like a modern day woman imagining a bunch of cavemen doing a gangbang on her.

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« Reply #49 on: May 18, 2010, 04:18:49 PM »
I find being worried about other peoples masturbation habits is kind of strange. People beat off all the damn time. It's more normal to beat off than to not beat off.

If you don't get the urge it's because your test levels are low.