It ain't the same - wasn't when I was a kid.
I can't ever remember hearing of a 13 year old girl running back to her friends and saying "quick, sniff my fingers" - but it was a regular occurence with us boys who'd managed to get a few fingers up despite not having any clue what we were doing.
When it comes to vaginal sex, it is not possible for a female to rape an unwilling male. All males are generally willing and the younger they are the more willing they are.
Here is the problem Pedro. In most or all of these cases, the women SPECIFICALLY SELECT awkward, unpopular boys.. Basically preying upon them, just like men who target lil kids, men tend to lure them with candy, and cool stuff. Women use what they have, sex. Same damn thing. Also, the boys that his happens to, lose respect or do not trust authority, especially female teachers and females in general. And many have hard times creating relationships.
Nobody said anything about women raping unwilling men, it's women in a power or authority positions and using that or their age to take advantage of boys. And they single out the weak ones to do so. They never pick the popular boys, because those boys already have attention, and those boys would tell their friends. A loner, awkward kid is more apt into being duped to "keep this as our secret"
