Listen, here, ask any man thats married, even alpha males will tell you.When you get married, your ex life gets cut in half.Once a woman marrys you the challenge is gone for her.
Women dont think like men.Women if they are made at you or insecure about you being muscular, they will cut you off so they can try to get control over you.Most of the time it back firess because the man cheats.
Women play games to make men feel insecure..They figure if they can throw you off, they can gain control.Unstable women like to contrl men because they cant control there own emotions.So by controlling men they feel secure.I am talking about women, who make plans with you then cancel the plans last minute.Or women who mention other men to make you jelious
The best way to beat these women at the game is dont react, or get made or jelious.
There person who isnt codependent, or doesnt need the other person as much will control the relationship.
If your wooped and need sex a woman will control you.If you dont need sex, she will more likely be willing to give it, to try to woop you.At times you make her think its working, but never let them woop you.
The bottom line is pus$#$ is pus#$# ,they all look and fell the same.Some might be a little tighter or cleaner, but not enough to deal with grief.I would rather have a girl that was nice looking and nice body with a few extra pounds, who rocked my world.Then deal with a pretty girl who was uptight, played games and sucked in bed.
Honestly everything your talking about is so childish, i don't want to offend you because i don't know you but i can only assume you are most likely dating shallow uneducated women.
I have dated girls like the ones you describe but i can honestly tell you that i have also met so many women who do not play the games like you describe.
You mention yourself 'unstable women' so obviously your dating the wrong kind from the get go. I can tell you straight and I'm not acting like hard ass or alpha dominant male but my girlfriend has way more sense to mention other men, if she did she knows: number 1: that it makes her look like a whore and number two: i would not put up with this kind of behaviour.
Regarding the sex part, i really have not had problem with these kind of games - in a caring relationship she will try to accommodate me as much as possible (even if she is tired) just like i would do the same for her. I don't understand this withholding sex part: i know my girl enjoys sex just as much as me, but both of us working hard means we have to compromise sometimes.
Everything you talk about is shallow and you most likely meeting women with similar personality to yourself. I'm not saying everything is perfect with the women i date but i can honestly say i have never had the problems you mention. I think something common with my experience is that any girl i have dated long term has had similar nuclear family backgrounds to myself - my mother never drinks or smokes and she sure as hell never partied - just you typical hard working parents. She always put her kids first and always well ahead of her own happiness and i can truthfully say my parents are very happy to this day.
Maybe i got lucky, maybe I'm delusional and really my girl controls me but i really cant say i have experienced similar problems to the ones you mention.
