Do a lot of people assume you are gay?

[FREAKgeek]

I think it's becoming clear to me that the more I follow the bodybuilding industry that it would be reasonable for people to assume that I am a bender.  I don't fault anyone for thinking this because as I said, I think it would be reasonable to assume that about bodybuilding fans, especially those who have been following it for a long time.  Truth be told, I started working out to get girls but that didn't really work out but I just really liked working out and kind of pursued it as a hobby.  Bodybuilding never worked for me mainly due to not being able to eat and since I wasn't competing, I never really tried very hard to deal with that.  What is a polite way to tell someone I am not gay?  The way I see it, gay people are lonely and so I don't want to be rude to them or anything.

Discuss.

So you are arguing that they should know you're gay instead of assuming you're gay.

[WillGrant]

Matt, in order to have to tell someone that you're not gay, you would have to be asked first and that would not occur unless you're at a gay club or a gay owned or operated place of business.  You will never be approached out on the streets with that question out of the blue.  I haven't that's for sure.

Then if you are asked that and you're not gay then the next question you have to ask yourself is why am I here at this dick swinging Sausagefest to begin with???

Of course, Matt you're not doing yourself any favors with that haircut you're sporting.  I've had 3 ex's that have had your same hairstyle.  

Overall, Matt if you ever get asked...then you're prob at a gay club.


BTW, gays certainly aren't lonely and every girl wants a gay friend to chat about and help them with clothing.  For someone who's bi, it works to my advantage....

Vince , the stereotypical poofter is meant to be "pretty" or goodlooking...so what is yours and vissys excuse?

[johnnynoname]

But a f.aggot either way.

Oh, without a doubt

[Master Blaster]

I thought the thread said:

"Do a lot of people assume you are grey?"

[WillGrant]

Oh, without a doubt

And I know with JNN its all an act because no fa99ot would be this ugly surely  

[Nirvana]

Vince , the stereotypical poofter is meant to be "pretty" or goodlooking...so what is yours and vissys excuse?

mis-timed carbs, bad lighting, and corrupt judging panel.

[johnnynoname]

And I know with JNN its all an act because no fa99ot would be this ugly surely  

i get hurt more by the "ugly" comments than the "gay" comments

but again, i dont mind if a bunch of dudes think i'm "ugly"...........apparently the girls don't haha

[buffdnet]

why in the motherfucking hell are you worried about
if you offend a sub species of humans.
here is the proper and only prospective,
oh i stepped on a maggot and goodrum,
darn, maggots eat all the dead homos at least both are serving
humanity in their maximum capacity.
that should be the extent of your concern.
never start a goddamn dumbass liberal fagg*t apologizing
thread ever again. if you call yourself a man.

[buffdnet]

i get hurt more by the "ugly" comments than the "gay" comments

but again, i dont mind if a bunch of dudes think i'm "ugly"...........apparently the girls don't haha

show me a big ladies man and I'll show you a panty wearing homo everytime.
quit while your ahead and get a blood test

[WillGrant]

i get hurt more by the "ugly" comments than the "gay" comments

but again, i dont mind if a bunch of dudes think i'm "ugly"...........apparently the girls don't haha

Im only pulling your pisser mate , no homo 

[johnnynoname]

quit while your ahead and get a blood test

i've already had one

needless to say, i still don't know who my dad is

Im only pulling your pisser mate , no homo 

 

[WillGrant]

why in the motherfucking hell are you worried about
if you offend a sub species of humans.
here is the proper and only prospective,
oh i stepped on a maggot and goodrum,
darn, maggots eat all the dead homos at least both are serving
humanity in their maximum capacity.
that should be the extent of your concern.
never start a goddamn dumbass liberal fagg*t apologizing
thread ever again. if you call yourself a man.

[ThaRealist]

I assume MattC is gay....Why would I think differently???

[Natural Man]

if you keep buying retarded jeans that are twice too wide for you its no wonder people think you re gay.

hint: look at his avatar picture

[Matt C]

No one assumes I am gay because I am into bodybuilding... I work out like crazy and I am pretty big. However last night my wife was on the phone with a friend of ours and she said "Sorry, my husband is busy at the moment, he is watching men in panties flex their muscles on stage at the moment" LOL

LOL!!!

I think if I continue to attend expos to cover the shows, I will fall into the "shmoe" category like Ron, Lonnie Teper, etc.  It is perfectly understandable for people to assume I am gay.  I in fact got this message on YouTube which prompted me to start this thread:

"Subject: Wanna get together and jerk off to muscle?"

I will not post the content, but you get the idea.

How would you respond to that?  I figure this would just be a good time to plug my site? 

that's not peter north you retarded fag

Yes, but they both have awesome hair.  Is that more or less genetic or do you think I could style it like that?  Mine looks like this a week or two after getting it cut:

[berblexer]

If someone asks me if I am gay I kick his ass.

[StanZoLOL]

^ That picture reeks of faggage.

[Earl1972]

only on getbig

E

[The Abdominal Snoman]

Look familiar Matt?
Almost like looking in a mirror huh?

Hugh Grant needs to brush his teeth with Tea Tree oil toothpaste to help stop the bacteria that is eating away his gums.

[Fury]

Matzi, while your gay hairstyle and gay clothing might not point to you being gay, your infatuation with DaddyWaddy's penis, the fact that you have  pics of it saved on your hard-drive and the fact that you constantly talk about it definitely makes you gay. How many dozens of posts praising it have you made now?

Fag.

[Ursus]

[Natural Man]

Everyone know mattc is gay but himself, funny isnt it.

And i concur, the hair, insecure look and stupid clothes scream repressed homosexuality and "i live at home with my mom cause i'm midly retarded".

[Matt C]

Everyone know mattc is gay but himself, funny isnt it.

And i concur, the hair, insecure look and stupid clothes scream repressed homosexuality and "i live at home with my mom cause i'm midly retarded".

Yes...it does scream that.  And to be honest, I don't really plan to change that except for my hairstyle.  It was cut only three days prior to the Olympia and I wasn't going for that style, it was just recently cut.  Now it has grown in nicely [like the photo above, which is the style I want] and it would have been scheduled to be that length at the Olympia.

I have come to the realization that there is no way that I can continue to look/dress as I do and cover bodybuilding contests without being assuming that I was gay and in fact, I would certainly assume it myself.

As I said, I am supportive of the gay community, but got way too many questions/requests about being a homosexual this past weekend to ignore this any longer.  I have to come out of the closet with my straightness at this point.

[Matt C]

why in the motherfucking hell are you worried about
if you offend a sub species of humans.
here is the proper and only prospective,
oh i stepped on a maggot and goodrum,
darn, maggots eat all the dead homos at least both are serving
humanity in their maximum capacity.
that should be the extent of your concern.
never start a goddamn dumbass liberal fagg*t apologizing
thread ever again. if you call yourself a man.

Because it's getting to the point now where my gay friends are routinely asking to suck me off.  My theory as to why is because the gay community is so small they simply do not have the variety of cock that they would want.  I'm just too nice to tell them no so I just kind of say nothing oppositional until they stop texting me.

It might be that they assume I am gay due to my appearance and also I am just less homophobic and more tolerant than average and therefore I never tell them no straight up.  I don't really like hurting people's feelings to be honest.

[Reeves]

Haha.  Totally fucking outed with the phrasing of this statement.

Wow.  You sure showed me.  You, my mentally deficient friend, have a wonderful economy with words. I suppose it hasn't occured to you that there are more than enough stupid, cliche spounting, idiots in this world without you working so hard to give us another (i.e., you, Jimmy Neutron).

You've obviously got your head so far up your ass you can chew your food again on the way down.  Schmoe that you are, I am certain you enjoy the meal.  Go away little one.