My GF is being a dick.....

[Parker]

That's my thought process exactly...but i will suck it up as others have said "pick your battles"

and Parker..what are you implying......"I'm itailan...we always fuck the mailman"   

What i meant was...whther or not you ar Italian and cook has no bearing whatrsoever whose kitchen you use, or whose house you go too...it's annoying when people bring something up that HAS nothing to do with their reasoning...

[outby43]

let her have her way in this little situation then you will get yours another time.  Stockpile those compromises and cash in big time later.

[Ursus]

She has a kid. Her house it is.

[Cableguy]

if she's Italian then good luck brother

seriously, good luck

X2...

[kiwiol]

x2  and it doesn't take that much room to nap.

It does when you're Groink's size

I'd settle this the old fashioned way - via a posedown, but hey, that's me.

[Palpatine Q]

It does when you're Groink's size

I'd settle this the old fashioned way - via a posedown, but hey, that's me.

I'll just get some blowjobs from her tonight and we will be even

[Mr Anabolic]

She's just a girl friend and you're not married to her?

My advice... get rid of her then you'll be able to do anything you want.  It's called freedom.... something you're not used to having since you've been with her.

[Palpatine Q]

She's just a girl friend and you're not married to her?

My advice... get rid of her then you'll be able to do anything you want.  It's called freedom.... something you're not used to having since you've been with her.

No one is holding a gun to my head...i want to be with her. I've done the single thing

[tendonitis]

Explain your position to her ONCE and if she's not budging take Showstoppa's advice and let it go.
Take comfort in knowing you're right AGAIN.  

[Alexander D]

I agreee... Clearly explain to her the reasons why you think its a better idea to do it at your house... if she still acts like a girl about it, drop it and then casually bring it up during dinner... "Gee, it would have been much better to do it at my LARGER place and not be so cramped... etc" This will ensure that next year you will have it at your place.


But quite frankly, id ditch the bitch... italian women are bitches, period.

[Jizzacked]

brother groink, while I am inclined to echo the pick your battles mantra.. in this case I am not so sure.  

you are going to be setting a precedent here.  if you let her have her way on this one, get ready for many more crowded holidays,  'nuts to butts' in her shitty little house.

then again maybe you don't want a pack of unruly wops wilin' out up in your crib.

tough call...

[newmom]

then again maybe you don't want a pack of unruly wops wilin' out up in your crib.

tough call...

let's leave calvinh out of this

[biff]

you're going to start hearing that "reasoning" (or some slight variation) evrytime she wants to get her way.

my brother has been in that world of shit because of poor decision making years ago.


do what you will, but there is a good chance it will end up with you cowtowing (sp?) to her family from here on out

[magicuser]

traditin culture or religion are no excuse for anything

by the way if you have a girlfriend u have no game -tom leykis

[magicuser]

what do tell a woman with 2 black eyes?


nuthin

you already told her twice

[Chick]

Here's the situation.

My GF wants to cook Christmas dinner at her house, which is a nice place, but it isn't that big. it's a split level with two bedrooms upstairs and the living room/dining room and kitchen downstairs. plus she has a young daughter so their are fucking toys everywhere

i have a 4 bedroom house that is fucking HUGE. tremendous kitchen, dining room and a great room that can easily seat 20 people with the master and 3 brs upstairs.

problem is she is being stubborn as fuck and insisting that we do it at her place because "I'm italian...I always cook and have Christmas at my place...it's my tradition.'  I have family coming in, as does she...and it's going to be uncomfortable and cramped...quite frankly i'm thinking of telling her FUCK YOU and just having my family at my house in comfort. But i love the girl and she is just trying to be a good hostess and have a nice holiday too...she's coming from a good place with this, she is just not thinking logically (surprise surprise )

What say ye.....getbiggers ?

I can all but guarantee you that the reason she wants to cook at her house is the simple reason that all her cooking stuff is there...right where she knows where it is, utensils, ingredients, etc...God knows what you have there, as most guys live like bears in caves...

[JoshL77]

Her pride too. Does she own the place?

[Captain Equipoise]

Crush her mind into submission by arguing that she's a whore for being a single mother and trying to raise a daughter without a father figure, next tell her how you don't want to bring your family to her ghetto cramped little place when you have a house 4 times bigger and your family is obviously more important.

cheers!

[JoshL77]

Crush her mind into submission by arguing that she's a whore for being a single mother and trying to raise a daughter without a father figure, next tell her how you don't want to bring your family to her ghetto cramped little place when you have a house 4 times bigger and your family is obviously more important.

cheers!

Omg.

[Ex Coelis]

I'm not sure we required the exact composition of your house

[Parker]

traditin culture or religion are no excuse for anything

by the way if you have a girlfriend u have no game -tom leykis

Have you seen Tom Leykis? If it wasn't for his money,  he wouldn't be able to even beg for pussy...he sets up this tough guy image, because he is a insecure douche


Straight Talk, No Chaser...you can either politely show the error of her reasoning, or mention it to folks---causally, and they will agree, prior to x-mas, therefore influencing her decision...or have it at her house, and like someone said, mention it, casually during dinner, within earshot about it...yet praise her on the wonderful job she did for dinner (up close), but say "you notice how crowded it was? Next year, it will be at my house, it will be less stressful on you"

or your can say that now---"it will be crowded, which means more people in the way, making more stressful, and since this is our first X-mas together, I don't want you to stress out, it's a season to enjoy our family and each other..."

this shows that you care, yet you get point across, but at the same time showing compassion, want, and desire for her...sometimes a shot doesn't have to be fired to win a war.

[Palpatine Q]

I can all but guarantee you that the reason she wants to cook at her house is the simple reason that all her cooking stuff is there...right where she knows where it is, utensils, ingredients, etc...God knows what you have there, as most guys live like bears in caves...

HaHahahaaaa...it's not that bad Chick  

you're probably right

[Palpatine Q]

you re 40 y o+. Abandonned wife and daughter "but keep seeing her" - what an exemple you must be, you re daughter is going to look after a copy of your character once an adult-, lift weights to compensate for a low intelectual level, and have a "girlfriend". You re posting on a messageboard filled with teens as mature as you. You re looking for validation on the internet which proves none of the strategies of compensation you use in your everyday life for your shortcomings work. You obviously have insecurity about your sexuality and feel to brag about it like a teen constantly. You re over investing sexuality because your under investing other parts of your life. As long as you re over investing parts of your life and under ivnesting others you re going to be frustrated no matter what you do to hide the under ivnestments and underdevelopments.

Merry christmas and happy new year.

LOLOLOL...i figured you killed yourself by now....happy holidays you freak

[Chick]

HaHahahaaaa...it's not that bad Chick  

you're probably right

I know I'm right....ask her. Been there and done that bro....

[Palpatine Q]

Crush her mind into submission by arguing that she's a whore for being a single mother and trying to raise a daughter without a father figure, next tell her how you don't want to bring your family to her ghetto cramped little place when you have a house 4 times bigger and your family is obviously more important.

cheers!

POTY candidate