WRONG WRONG WRONG..After the thread you started, I have to say something. Just take it from an old lady perspective. They don't want to be smothered from jump street. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, by this I mean you don't have to date 100 people at once but date a few until you find or meet someone that grows into something serious. I really think you want to be in a serious relationship (guessing by your posts). Nothing is wrong with that but if you try to hard it can scare them away.
Don't take this the wrong way Mahg. If you posted a shot and trying to prove it's a legit watch and how much it costs, I'm guessing you do the same thing with chicks (wether you say you do or don't is irrelevant). I'm sure most dudes here will say a woman wants money and bla bla and perhaps for the younger ladies that may be true but not for ALL women.
The whole - Chicks want money is all bullshit, I am sure there is a certain amount of woman out there that are particularly interested in meeting men with money, but the wide majority
find other things more attractive and or important.
I have dated a wide and I mean a wide range of woman when I was single so I am qualified to talk about this.
Having money does help no doubt, not to show off but you can actually afford to whoo a girl/woman that you meet and bring her out to a nice restaurant.
But here's a true example from me - which made a much bigger impact with my wife when I meet her:
She and me meet in a laundry shop, I was on the way out of the country litteraly was planing to leave Ireland in the next two weeks, I stayed in an absolute kip since I broke up with my girlfriend and fleed the apartment that we shared, it was a contious decision to save as much money as possible in the shortest amount of time.
So I am in the laundry shop and there she is - Yes I did like her straight away and she said she like me from the start as well, were the difference is was that I still had a job to do to convince her that staying with me is a good idea.
I didn't accomplish this by showing her that I had more money than she ever seen in her life (she just arrived a few month before from Latvia) but instead I went against anything I thought you need to do on a date and invited her to a day in the Zoo, I'm not saying I am super smart but it worked very well, I just picked one of my favorite places, and since I am an qualified zookeeper I had plenty of chances to show off The one thing that made an impression with her (and I bet that goes for any girl) was that when I asked her if she would go out for another date and she agreed I said *Quote: Don't worry about nothing, I'm going to arrange the day I be looking after you.... it wasn't fake or anything I didn't even notice that I said it but later on when we were partners she told me that this made the biggests impression with her - Now pay attention kids!!! It made her feel that I am serious and that I am covering her six anytime all the time - It convinced her that I can be trusted.
That's what any woman and any man is after - finding somebody they can trust.
