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Re: Muscle escorting
« Reply #125 on: September 27, 2005, 08:33:56 AM »
LOL.  That’s very J.R. Ewing of you!  But that would require too much leg work.  Most johns are just an email address, or a cell phone number.  To get more info you’d have to actually meet them.  ew!    :-[

Remember, too, that many of these johns are openly gay.  Having gone through the stigma of coming out and being openly gay, tricking with a john isn’t much of a scandal.  Certainly, not enough of one they would pay to conceal . :-\

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« Reply #126 on: September 27, 2005, 08:45:56 AM »
most guys who see female pro's do it on the "dl" .... i would assume its even more discreet with gay ones .......

and trust me, finding someone with an email is totally within the realm of possibility(though not a certainty) ....

whaddya say ... i can get the $$ to move out of my parents house and you can buy yourself a guy with a 15 inch schlong ;D

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« Reply #127 on: September 29, 2005, 08:39:21 PM »
alot of oil in them arms lol  ::)
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« Reply #128 on: October 01, 2005, 04:01:16 AM »
because of this thread.. im never visiting getbig again. fuck bodybuilding. ima work out with a completely different outlook now.

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« Reply #129 on: October 11, 2005, 07:30:47 PM »
also i forgot to mention now that i do have a good job, i go to the spots sometimes here in nyc and given the fact i love puerto rican men where they hang out, you know the clubs and adult bookstores and i tell you i think there is a whole new way of thinking because i have been approached many times buy these what appears to be thug boys with hats cocked to the side, tatoos on their arms, teardrops under their eyes and they are all hustling, its a complete shock sometimes to me to see them.

because these are men and boys u would swear on a stack of bibles are straight but yet they are willing to let you suck them or suck you for the low sum of 20bucks, "go figure" i will admit some of the best blowjobs i have had have been by supposedly straight boys who i have given the 20 bucks to, it is just great to look down and see the tatoos and teardrops and even wedding rings. i personally think the "down low" lifestyle is out of control there are so many boys that just crave the attention of a man until all of this is going on.

The other day while on the subway i ran into i had given 20dollars to with his girlfriend and their baby of course i did not speak to him but i just wondered does she know? this guy has no feminine traits whatsoever but yet he loves to suck d*ck and does it like a pro, amazing. so just let this be a lesson to everyone just because it looks a certain way does not mean that it is. :o

i find your point about males wanting/needing contact with other males interesting.  my father died whilst i was a baby, my mother never married.  i joined the navy at 18, and was overjoyed to serve on a number of ships around the world.  I did very well in the service, working for very senior personnel until i left at 29.  i was often asked by guys if i would accompany them to parties etc, and i admit i did on a small number of occasions, but soon realised that this road would go somewhere where i probably did not want to be in the future.  i am now working in a very female-dominated industry, and missing male role models, which why, i guess, i am getting interested in the bb world - which i am very new to.

men should talk to each other more, though i see so much competition between men, that i feel everyone one of us is trying to outdo the other, to the extent that it is vertually impossible to find new friendships with guys.  perhaps i shall find them in the bb community. i am 42 though, and doubtful.




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Re: Muscle escorting
« Reply #130 on: October 13, 2005, 02:54:04 PM »
Brad 's muscles for sale?  Say it isn't so...  :'(


Let’s assume Brad charges $500 per private posing session/feats of strength, etc.  If he sees two johns per day, based on his posted itinerary he’s going to make quite a bit more than the wannabes at the upcoming Olympia.

http://www.bradhollibaugh.net/homepage.php

More power to Brad, but how sad is it that so many are competing for so little money at body building’s main event.  :-\

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« Reply #131 on: October 14, 2005, 08:12:54 PM »
FAG :-*
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« Reply #132 on: October 15, 2005, 01:27:00 PM »
FAG :-*

Gee, this pic looks very familiar.  (Balding) Men in the audience “admiring” the scantily clad muscle men on stage... while they pose and flex for your beneft..  Hmm, where have we seen this before?  ;D

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« Reply #133 on: October 16, 2005, 12:02:21 PM »
About a year ago I read that Chris Duffy was launching his own website but many moons later nothing has happened.  I know he was/is escorting but otherwise he appears to have retreated from public life.  What’s the 411?

btw, I dig those tattoos!

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« Reply #134 on: November 20, 2005, 12:11:47 PM »
Mickey Squires announced this month that he has officially retired from escorting.  He says he’s been doing it for 25 years! 

In his own words, “ . . . i now know it's time to let go of this business and leave it to all the men here who are so young and muscled...as i once was . . . well actually i am still very muscled...just too old to really think i can hire myself out anymore . . . ”


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« Reply #135 on: January 05, 2006, 12:31:11 PM »
small chest and traps.
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« Reply #136 on: January 05, 2006, 03:04:26 PM »
why should they feel sorry for him, he got what he wanted they got what they wanted, people make their own choices in life.
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« Reply #137 on: January 07, 2006, 06:35:28 AM »
i still dont get why nobody was allowed to talk about how they died.
it's almost as if they are trying to hide something

can somebody say conspiracy?
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« Reply #138 on: January 07, 2006, 06:59:14 AM »
i still dont get why nobody was allowed to talk about how they died.
it's almost as if they are trying to hide something

can somebody say conspiracy?

There are usually two takes on talking about the deaths of these escorts.

One camp (of which I am a part) says it’s natural to ask about the cause of death when a young person dies unexpectedly.  Actually, this is true at any age.  If you tell me someone died in a car accident my curiosity is satisfied; I don’t care to know the specific physiological cause of death.  Car accident is enough.  Potential cloning aside, we all come into life the same say, but we all exit life under different circumstances.  In most parts of the world the cause of a person’s death is something people want to know--especially if it was someone you knew, was a fan of, patronized, etc.

The other camp doesn’t believe it is appropriate to ask/know.  I think they feel this way because if the cause of death is shown to be something like overdosing on drugs (which is common), people in this camp, on some level, feel that they contributed to the death by supporting an activity (escorting) that frequently involves drug use.  The feeling of culpability is heightened by the fact that very often people in this camp are still engaged in the behavior (renting escorts) that, on some level, lead to the death.  In other words, not knowing or not having it talked about allows them to wash their hands of any and all responsibility in the death so they can continue to rent escorts without compunction.

That’s my theory anyway.  Obviously, people in the second camp would disagree.

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« Reply #139 on: January 07, 2006, 07:11:58 AM »
that sounds like a pretty good theory.
my only problem is that it sounds like ALOT of them died within a couple years. so that combined with the anger about asking what happened and banning those that did just sounds kind of fishy.

lets hope at least some good comes from their deaths.  like other escorts seeing this and getting out while they are still alive?

interesting story Bay
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« Reply #140 on: January 07, 2006, 10:43:17 AM »
that sounds like a pretty good theory.
my only problem is that it sounds like ALOT of them died within a couple years. so that combined with the anger about asking what happened and banning those that did just sounds kind of fishy.

lets hope at least some good comes from their deaths.  like other escorts seeing this and getting out while they are still alive?


For the most part that is wishful thinking.  For every escort that crashes and burns there are 5 waiting in line to take his place with a dream of a quick money and little thought given to the potential for how badly things can go.

Back in August when this thread was still popular no less than seven guys sent me private messages on getbig asking for the link of that escort board.  Some said they were just “curious.”  Others were more upfront: they wanted to try escorting and they thought that board sounded like a good venue to find clients. :(

If your curious, I declined to provide the link.

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« Reply #141 on: January 07, 2006, 10:46:52 AM »
For the most part that is wishful thinking.  For every escort that crashes and burns there are 5 waiting in line to take his place with a dream of a quick money and little thought given to the potential for how badly things can go.

GayBay,

Why in your opinion is it so difficult for these escorts to do this line of work without resorting to drugs?

Can't they just do the job, get their money and get out like any other person working a job?

Why is it they fall prey to drugs?

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« Reply #142 on: January 07, 2006, 11:24:36 AM »
Good question.

The notion of surplus (or what feels like surplus) cash being converted into drugs is very common.  Does a week go by when some overpaid celebrity isn’t in the news for being strung out on drugs and alcohol?

My sense is that some personality types are simply more inclined to susceptibility to drug use/addiction.  It seems like ALL are dying from drugs because this thread is basically focused on the ones who crashed and burned, but I’m sure there are escorts out there who are not on drugs.

I think, too, that a lot of escorts are conflicted A) about their sexuality and B) about what they are doing.  Drugs, and the “comfort” they afford are a common yet ineffective way to deal with this conflict.

If you’re a ‘straight’ , bi-curious bodybuilder, or a gay man struggling with internalized homophobia, drug use can make you feel better about hooking up with a guy.  Similarly, it can make you feel better about being an escort.  Polite words aside, no one dreams of becoming a prostitute and I have to believe on some level most of these guys actually disapprove of what they are doing as escorts.  Again, drugs help address this conflict.  But addictive substances are a slippery slope; before long you are hooked.  Your habit prevents you from holding steady work, so you have to whore yourself out even more since you don’t have a “real” job.  Before long, all you have the time and motivation for is the gym and raising more money the easiest way you know how: turning tricks.

Even if you have a real job you get so used to the extra money that you continue to trick.  Either way, drugs figure prominently in the escort scene.

Less than a minute searching on the internet will reveal that male to male escorting is a big business and muscle escorting is just a small subset of that.  I just checked: there are more than 12500 registered members on that muscle escort board--and remember, that is just a subset of the larger pool of man to man escorting that goes on.:-\


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« Reply #143 on: January 07, 2006, 11:37:45 AM »
I've been around drugs a bit, partied through the 90s in the british rave scene, used ecstacy, speed, lsd, cannabis, mushrooms and cocaine but what the fuck is 'chrystal meth'?.....this seems something talked about a lot by americans but something i've never come across in the UK....also PCP, what is that?

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« Reply #144 on: January 07, 2006, 11:41:06 AM »
I've been around drugs a bit, partied through the 90s in the british rave scene, used ecstacy, speed, lsd, cannabis, mushrooms and cocaine but what the f**k is 'chrystal meth'?.....this seems something talked about a lot by americans but something i've never come across in the UK....also PCP, what is that?

Answers please  ???

Google is your friend.  Google both terms and you'll find lots of info. :-\

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« Reply #145 on: January 07, 2006, 11:42:36 AM »
Google is your friend.  Google both terms and you'll find lots of info. :-\

I was hoping to be lazy and just have you tell me.....but google it is then.
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« Reply #146 on: January 07, 2006, 01:10:17 PM »
I've been around drugs a bit, partied through the 90s in the british rave scene, used ecstacy, speed, lsd, cannabis, mushrooms and cocaine but what the f**k is 'chrystal meth'?.....this seems something talked about a lot by americans but something i've never come across in the UK....also PCP, what is that?

Answers please  ???

Crystal meth(ice) is a drug made by redneck bikers in trailer homes. Well not anymore anyway....The market was taken over by huge labs now in Mexico. ...I was with a girl that liked to use the stuff on occasion. She could suck a golf ball through a garden hose lol.....It's made out of all kinds of nasty houshold chemicals, but psuedophedrine is one of the primary ingredients. It's extremely addictive - almost as bad as heroin. People take it and get high out of their minds, violent, and paranoid. They stay up for days. Chemically it's similar to ritalin and adderall.

PCP(angel dust/sherm/embalming fluid) is a dissociative anaesthetic. It was originally used in veterinarian facilities as far as I know.
When the put the animals under for surgery. This is another drug people get violent on. I remember years back this golly fell through the bushes and his woman was screaming at him. He was naked and curled up in a fetal position. Suddenly he jumped up and ran barefoot through the yard and jumped the fence like an escaped gorilla. I shit you not! It was PCP I came to find out later after talking to one of the cops about it. There was another incident a while back. Another golly was riding a bicycle naked and punching people as he drove by. hahaha. He was mumbling something about being a gorilla hahaha. This is the kind of shit people do on PCP. They dissociate and they are damn near impervious to pain. I saw one on the show cops punch a hole through a fence like nothing. Good shit.
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« Reply #147 on: January 07, 2006, 01:17:21 PM »
If you want to get a PCP-like high. Drink 8oz(240ml) of Robitussin DM with dextromethorphan as the only active ingredient. The dextromethorphan will give you a similar effect as it's related to PCP. It's in the dissociative anaesthetic class. But I don't reccomend it. Being mummified and on another planet isn't a good high.
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« Reply #148 on: January 08, 2006, 05:36:52 AM »
i knew john from the new york BB seen but was by no means a friend
i saw him before he went into the hospital 6 months ago and he was sadly a mess ! he was once about 280 and when i saw him he looked to have been 130 lbs and had the shakes he tried seeling some test gel lol !
i could not  buy anything from him because i just felt like i was only helping him kill himself faster.
he had a few medical problems
that sure made me think he had aids all the christal and unprotected sex kills you fast ! he had a real girlfriend that would take care of him but sadly she left once things got bad ....cant say i blame her
huslers just dont last that life is just plain ugly !

That's kinda what I was trying to say in my earlier post #143 above.  :-\

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« Reply #149 on: January 08, 2006, 09:37:53 AM »
That's kinda what I was trying to say in my earlier post #143 above.  :-\

GayBay,

Aren't there any successful cases of former escorts changing their ways and finding a way to make it out the game?

or is that just Blasphemy?






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