i see what you re talking about... most of them have had no father at home and found their virility in lifting weights and video games, holywood super herores/war movies. Lifting weights produce serotonin in their brains and make them feel better about their insecurities for some hours a day, so they decide that all their life is going to revolve around lifting weights. They discover that pain makes you feel good and healthier... Yet they re still insecure about the bigger, better looking guys, who have a job, an education, had a father and basically have higher chances of survival than them since the beginning. So they start injecting shit, get tattoos, shave their heads.... They have no job , education, or only move boxes for 9 bucks an hour, when they re not on welfare or maintained by...their mother...their biggest pride in life is to own a honda civic and listening to dance music while going to the park to take a walk with their ...dog, their only friend besides actresses on internet porn sites, and their ''internet friends'' from the xbox live.
But can we blame em? it's not their fault. that's just the way it is. The best thing that could happen to em would be to meet a good girl as insecure as them, work as ''security guards'' , or even get an education, build a family.. but still one last trap remains; once the kid's spawned, they tend to reproduce what their father did with them, and feel the need for more ''space, freedom'' and....abandon kid and gf.
how to be a father when you had no father to imitate?