The goal of too many young guys who start training is to bench big numbers.
There`s nothing wrong with this but when you go heavy all the time for years and try max singles a lot or always as some idiots do,then that`s where trouble begins.
Truthfully,most guyswhose goal is to bench 315,365,or 405 etc. etc.,more than likely never will and more than likely will develop shoulder problems for their efforts.
Leave the ego at the door and train your pecs!!
Heavy is relative.......what`s heavy for 5-6 or 8-12 reps for you is still heavy, though it may not be 495 or 550.
Thank me later.