Contact Marty36564, he might help you out with the next steps.
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And yes, I agree with DK. Wiggs, you should really send Marty 31672 a private message
Marty31672 has gone through the same thing you're going through. Currently, Marty31672 is in California living the dream. He overcame many obstacles in his life, one of them being his ex wife. Maybe you should start another thread asking Marty31672 for help.