Why you shouldn't try to bone girls on first date

[apply85]

We had a word for you back in the day. A keyboard jockey.

Some of the best guys in the world with women have the iq of a damn rock. They simply don't give a damn what women think of them and operate in their own reality. Why in the hell would you want to just hang around women you are not having sex with is beyond me but to each his own.

How about this? Learn how to have sex with women properly so you put them to sleep afterwards and maybe you won't be so concerned about what she thinks of you when she meets you because you know deep down you are going to put her ass to sleep if you get her in bed. 

There you go. End of story. 

lol at this, i like the smile at the end that implies you were joking I guess, listen no one doesn't care about what beautiful women think, guys will do anything for a pretty face, what I'm saying i sdon't be that guy, female beauty is an illusion.

Tbomz, DNA is everything, the reason you wanna fuck is cuz it's in your DNA, what I mean is that it doesn't matter what you consciously say to yourself about yourself, this is not true self regad, I'm talking about how the organism views itself. It's like the different between acting confident and actually being confident. When you act confident you communicate to women that in order to manipulate you what they have to do is valdate your confidence so to speak, to agree with you when you insist that you don't care lol, when you actually are confident they melt down and accept your will into their own minds like a urinal lol, know what I mean <----- this right here is the key, and there is no learning to be confident, your DNA either believes it should be passed on or it keeps itself from being passed on by inducing anxiety, there's no lying to your DNA, no lying to your organism

[ManBearPig...]

apply, what's your height and weight?

[apply85]

5'8 145 about

[apply85]

apply, what's your height and weight?

If this is regarding whether my phsysical attributes help me to attract women... look again I'm saying the purpose isn't to be smome physically perfect man and reject women who desperately wanna bed you like you're fabio, the key is to understand that women are cowards are no one to be worshipped!

I have commented on this earlier, but obsession with musce and height and penis size is evidence of letting a woman's will occupy your mind, notice I use this phrase often, this is what power is, to relate to someone in the capacity that their will dictates how you feel and what you do

Let me give you the example of a teacher's role in a classroom, he does his lecture and then he says "does anybody have any questions." Now what happens is a heirarchy is formed among his students, he is at the top and now students who want to be close to the top raise their hand and say things they think he wants to hear, these students sit right up front, and the rest of the class reacts in different ways. Some of them harbor resentment, they dislike those smart students as a threat to them, some students decide this teacher isn't smarter than they are so they are ambivilent, basically the teacher's power is to organize the students into a heirarchy by saying "now perform xyz so I can measure who I like the most."

This is what women do, they will tell you they like tall guys if you are short, they will tell you they like big guys if you are small, or they don't like bodybuilders if you are big, understand? They will say my vagina is long, meaning you can't measure up little fella, better try ur hardest, or they will say size doesn't matter if they think you have power with women because of the size of your dick. Understand?

"Any woman can get laid any time." "Size doesn't matter it's how you work it." "I like blacks and latinos" <----- these are the things that place height and size and whatever obsession into men's minds... your girl starts talking about dicks, give her a sharp slap across the face, she is putting you in your place which is bellow her, associate this behavior with pain and she will stop, if she fights you go find another girl who never ever brings these things up, you have now found yourself in a zero risk situation with a woman because now it is up to you to have self control and not abuse her, abuse her or don't I care more about men then women, I relate to men better, I have slapped a woman around so hard my hand was throbbing

[g101]

interesting posts apply

[dyslexic]

apply, what's your height and weight?

And what medication are you currently taking?

[tbombz]

lol at this, i like the smile at the end that implies you were joking I guess, listen no one doesn't care about what beautiful women think, guys will do anything for a pretty face, what I'm saying i sdon't be that guy, female beauty is an illusion.

Tbomz, DNA is everything, the reason you wanna fuck is cuz it's in your DNA, what I mean is that it doesn't matter what you consciously say to yourself about yourself, this is not true self regad, I'm talking about how the organism views itself. It's like the different between acting confident and actually being confident. When you act confident you communicate to women that in order to manipulate you what they have to do is valdate your confidence so to speak, to agree with you when you insist that you don't care lol, when you actually are confident they melt down and accept your will into their own minds like a urinal lol, know what I mean <----- this right here is the key, and there is no learning to be confident, your DNA either believes it should be passed on or it keeps itself from being passed on by inducing anxiety, there's no lying to your DNA, no lying to your organism

your very misguided and confused about the human experience in general it seems. YOU are the organism. how you view yourself is the direct determinant of your confidence level.  dna predetermines physical qualities and can lead to predispositions for certain behaviors by way of building the neural network in different ways.   

if you take a step back and think what your saying, it contradicts itself. if it was true no imperfect organism would ever survive, it would kill itself upon inception to let superior organisms have at the resources of the world.

it really baffles me sometimes the things people think.

[apply85]

And what medication are you currently taking?

lol I was born crazy, when I first started forming thoughts, the thought I had was that I was God, I referred to my own imagination as a kind of sphere of light, it was something intangible and magical to me, in other people I could not see it, I could only see their tangible face, my father explained to me evolution back then and I understood how you can evolve a face but not the sphere of light so I thought I was the only one with it, so I must be god. We had a neighbour, a famous general from the afghan war, very mean intimidating fella who beat his daughter, my mom ran out ot the rose gaurden and found me looking up at him callimg him a "doorak" very loudly, this means idiot in russian. When I was still very little I played a little game with the women of my family, who were all large breasted doctors lol, they would all sit on a couch and I would go from one to the toehr bouncing on their breasts, Istill remember thism I held onto their shoulders and jumped up and down on their breasts, I as the only man of the house... so I am remarkably well adjusted given the circumstances as you can see lol

[tbombz]

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"Any woman can get laid any time." "Size doesn't matter it's how you work it." "I like blacks and latinos" <----- these are the things that place height and size and whatever obsession into men's minds... your girl starts talking about dicks, give her a sharp slap across the face, she is putting you in your place which is bellow her, associate this behavior with pain and she will stop, if she fights you go find another girl who never ever brings these things up, you have now found yourself in a zero risk situation with a woman because now it is up to you to have self control and not abuse her, abuse her or don't I care more about men then women, I relate to men better, I have slapped a woman around so hard my hand was throbbing

and now your outing yourself as an extremely insecure individual who has to feel special and better than other men in the eyes of a woman in order to feel good about himself.

[apply85]

and now your outing yourself as an extremely insecure individual who has to feel special and better than other men in the eyes of a woman in order to feel good about himself.

No, I am a slightly insecure man who loves to sexually humiliate and abuse women, and this satsifies the dual goals of getting off and superiority, but regarding men I am respectful and affectionate even, just like how I am here, I will joke around but in the end I look for things to like in people rather than to disapprove of, and regarding your earlier post, I seperate the conscious and unconscious parts of the mind and the best way I can describe their relationship is that they are friends, one can talk and articulate itself but th eother is the stronger one and bullies his nerdy friend around, and btw the girl who I slapped around severely, I am very close friends with her to this day and there is much love between us because she saw my abuse of her and my jealousy that spurned it as love. In the end I worship women and what they think matters to me more than anything, it is the source of my identity, what women think of me is what I am, and this frustrates me to the level that I have spew all this woman hating rhetoric and I abuse them, but I don't abuse them coldly, it's out of my greed for their love. I gtg go sleepy now, good talk guys, good talk

[tbombz]

No, I am a slightly insecure man who loves to sexually humiliate and abuse women, and this satsifies the dual goals of getting off and superiority, but regarding men I am respectful and affectionate even, just like how I am here, I will joke around but in the end I look for things to like in people rather than to disapprove of, and regarding your earlier post, I seperate the conscious and unconscious parts of the mind and the best way I can describe their relationship is that they are friends, one can talk and articulate itself but th eother is the stronger one and bullies his nerdy friend around, and btw the girl who I slapped around severely, I am very close friends with her to this day and there is much love between us because she saw my abuse of her and my jealousy that spurned it as love. In the end I worship women and what they think matters to me more than anything, it is the source of my identity, what women think of me is what I am, and this frustrates me to the level that I have spew all this woman hating rhetoric and I abuse them, but I don't abuse them coldly, it's out of my greed for their love. I gtg go sleepy now, good talk guys, good talk

you said it yourself, its your insecurity that drives you to abuse women. obvioulsy being dominate is attractive, but not abuse.

[apply85]

you said it yourself, its your insecurity that drives you to abuse women. obvioulsy being dominate is attractive, but not abuse.

You calling me insecure after I admitted to be insecure, which everyone is, you think this matters like are somebody's whose thoughts matter to me? lol look when I say I'm insecure, what I mean is this, when I'm in a coffee shop and there are seats next to the window or further inside I will wait in line to get seats near the window just so I can make eye contact with women and be seen, it's not so much that I need validation but I have a need for the female gaze, who is insecure me in the window or the peopel in the back who like to be in low light because they suck? It's not so much insecurity as it is a need, which is a weakness in a way because I will do anything to have this need satsfied, but you are the guy posting pics of yourself in diaper undwear looking like a big fat hairy baby on steroids, who wouldn't love to have my insecurity lol

[tbombz]

You calling me insecure after I admitted to be insecure, which everyone is, you think this matters like are somebody's whose thoughts matter to me? lol look when I say I'm insecure, what I mean is this, when I'm in a coffee shop and there are seats next to the window or further inside I will wait in line to get seats near the window just so I can make eye contact with women and be seen, it's not so much that I need validation but I have a need for the female gaze, who is insecure me in the window or the peopel in the back who like to be in low light because they suck? It's not so much insecurity as it is a need, which is a weakness in a way because I will do anything to have this need satsfied, but you are the guy posting pics of yourself in diaper undwear looking like a big fat hairy baby on steroids, who wouldn't love to have my insecurity lol

 

not everyone is so insecure  and your letting it negatively effect you. you will never have a real relationship with a woman if you continue to think and behave they way you describe here.  no doubt some weak women will become attached , but never real love.

LOL @ diaper underwear.  your a highly suggestable fellow, thats for sure.

[tbombz]

oh and its not subconscious vs conscious... its the animal vs the spirit 

[apply85]

oh and its not subconscious vs conscious... its the animal vs the spirit  

Yeah the animal, the organism, these are good words to describe it,

And I think you are confused about more than just the spellin of suggestible lol

[Parker]

Apply, you were making some sense, until you started with the Domestic Violence shit...
I deal with women who are or have been in domestic violence situations---and it's always the dude's insecurity, not his confidence that rules. He tells her not to wear make up to wrk, controls where she goes out, cuts out her friends and family, and then says "No man will ever want you, you are lucky you have me."

instead of talking to women like they are from another planet, how about talking to women like they are human, and women. Men and women communicate differently. Instead of talking to women and lookt at their tits and cleavage (when you do they say "got ya"), look at her eyes, the face, the lips...and then do what Casanova said..."Just Listen."

you do too much damn talking and overanalyzing shit. Have women become more masculine and men become more feminine? Yep, but the basic principles of not giving a fuck still apply, and the way you talk as well.

Recently, I was on the phone with someone (a woman), in Borders, and after I got off the phone, a woman near me said, "I like how you talked to her and called her "love".
I explained it was a term of endearment, and she wasn't my woman. But, she liked the way I spoke, and my voice, and that I wasn't trying to "go hard" on woman to feel "superior".
I got that woman's number.

In short, a cool, clean mofo, who doesn't panic when he doesn't get his way, or when the world is burning down, tends to be more attractive than a guy worried about being dominant and controlling and smacking women...abusive behavior is not a good look, and shows just how insecure you really are.

[Palpatine Q]

If this is regarding whether my phsysical attributes help me to attract women... look again I'm saying the purpose isn't to be smome physically perfect man and reject women who desperately wanna bed you like you're fabio, the key is to understand that women are cowards are no one to be worshipped!

I have commented on this earlier, but obsession with musce and height and penis size is evidence of letting a woman's will occupy your mind, notice I use this phrase often, this is what power is, to relate to someone in the capacity that their will dictates how you feel and what you do

Let me give you the example of a teacher's role in a classroom, he does his lecture and then he says "does anybody have any questions." Now what happens is a heirarchy is formed among his students, he is at the top and now students who want to be close to the top raise their hand and say things they think he wants to hear, these students sit right up front, and the rest of the class reacts in different ways. Some of them harbor resentment, they dislike those smart students as a threat to them, some students decide this teacher isn't smarter than they are so they are ambivilent, basically the teacher's power is to organize the students into a heirarchy by saying "now perform xyz so I can measure who I like the most."

This is what women do, they will tell you they like tall guys if you are short, they will tell you they like big guys if you are small, or they don't like bodybuilders if you are big, understand? They will say my vagina is long, meaning you can't measure up little fella, better try ur hardest, or they will say size doesn't matter if they think you have power with women because of the size of your dick. Understand?

"Any woman can get laid any time." "Size doesn't matter it's how you work it." "I like blacks and latinos" <----- these are the things that place height and size and whatever obsession into men's minds... your girl starts talking about dicks, give her a sharp slap across the face, she is putting you in your place which is bellow her, associate this behavior with pain and she will stop, if she fights you go find another girl who never ever brings these things up, you have now found yourself in a zero risk situation with a woman because now it is up to you to have self control and not abuse her, abuse her or don't I care more about men then women, I relate to men better, I have slapped a woman around so hard my hand was throbbing

I don't know dude.....my woman doesn't do ANY of that shit.  she calls my dick "supercock" and tells me I'm the best fuck she's ever had....BY FAR ( her words). She could be leaving some stuff out.....I know i do when she asks me about my sexual history. Why make someone you care about feel insecure or inadequate.

 She says good things about me in every regard. the type of person you are describing is a real piece of shit, manipulative bitch....I would sniff that shit out in three minutes and tell her to fuck off

[StanZoLOL]

She says good things about me in every regard. the type of person you are describing is a real piece of shit, manipulative bitch....I would sniff that shit out in three minutes and tell her to fuck off

x2

[Parker]

I don't know dude.....my woman doesn't do ANY of that shit.  she calls my dick "supercock" and tells me I'm the best fuck she's ever had....BY FAR ( her words). She could be leaving some stuff out.....I know i do when she asks me about my sexual history. Why make someone you care about feel insecure or inadequate.

 She says good things about me in every regard. the type of person you are describing is a real piece of shit, manipulative bitch....I would sniff that shit out in three minutes and tell her to fuck off

So, you didn't smack her when she starts talking about things that you "deem" as inappropriate?

[CalvinH]

I don't really like to make a ton of new threads, but there's a couple threads now made one about a really cute girl and every guy is droolng over her, and another thread about a guy going back to his hometown to see the love of his life and she rejects his text

Here's why you should not try to sleep with women quickly: there are women out there trying to get guys to sleep with them very hard, they are power hungry and their source of power is their pussy, and these are the women who abuse men and lie to them and cheat on them after years of marriage and a kid, sleeping with these women is not winning, it's losing. TO have true power over these women is to nto sleep with them, keep them around for the benefits of hanging out with hot chicks, do not sleep with them, you will own them.

There's a ton of information on how to pick up girls, how to sleep with them quickly, these so called experts try to make things sound complicated and call themselves players, look women wanna sleep with men even more than men wanna sleep with women, so getting laid is no great accomplishment, these players get laid by women who aim to abuse men, who have stds but insist on not using condoms because they get off on the power of convincing a man to compromise his integrity and his health

It's not impossible to sleep with a good girl quickly, but this is a good way of ruining things, because the sex will not be good and she will stop returning your phone calls. Why is the sex not good? Do you know why they call them one night stands? Why doesn't the girl return? Cuz it sucked, no matter what you tell yourself or how much you got off, it was not good

Often times for a man to sleep with a woman is for the man to lose power with her, not to gain this, so all these pick up artists who convinced you that geting laid by lots of women is cool, they do it to convince you that they are cool so you go to their website or buy their book, it's all bullshit

I just read a thread on another forum where a guy feels small no matter what he injects, he wants ot know the reason, it's the same reason a lot of guys don't get laid. It's called low self regard, and this isn't what you think about yourself, it's what your own DNA allows itself to do or doesn't allow itself to do, if you get nervous around women this is your DNA denying itself sex because it does not believe it should be passed on, it thinks it's inferior, so no matter how much you work out, no matter what kind of high you get, you will never feel like anything special because your DNA isn't allowing you too... for good reason, the human race did not evolve to dominate this planet by letting any old DNA to survive

There's a part of this post that will let's say offend people, it's when I say that picking up girls isn't hard because girls want it too, so people say, Oh really, why am I suffering over here because of rejection, it's because you think you can make women like you by working out lol, sex and love were never promised to you at birth, it's not free, you gotta work for it and work involves not living in a fantasy world where someone posts a pic and you say "yeah, I'd hit it." No you wouldn't, you pass up hot girls all the time, why don;t you hit it? Because pictures can't talk back that's why, pictures don't intimidate you, but women do. This "I would hit it" mentality is a delusion, you wouldn't and you don't hit it, understand that you are not entitled to a woman's beauty, you gotta give her something back called good feelings, give her good feelings and make her feel good and she will make you feel good, if you don't get what you want from women it's cuz u don't deserve it.

So what was I gonna say, right my point about bad girls... sleeping with bad girls is to lose, and bad girls hide behind innocent little smiles like the one the guy posted that guys are drooling over, part of a woman's power is her power to mislead, and theur looks aren't only deceiving, it's also how they act, how the guy posted about going back to his hometown, he called a woman the love of his live. THis is the highest pedestal you can put a woman on, for what reason, what did she do to deserve it? She mislead him with her good girl charms and beauty, to be decieved by beauty is to lose.

You should not aim to sleep with lots of girls, aim to be a discipliner of women, learn to seperate the good girls from the bad, and this takes a long time so this is why you don'ts sleep with women on the first date, and REJECT the bad girls and REWARD the good girls, this is how to have power in the world of women

pelliusesq type post.

[Palpatine Q]

So, you didn't smack her when she starts talking about things that you "deem" as inappropriate?

A stern look takes care of that 

[Parker]

A stern look takes care of that 

Yeah, I'm glad you don't take a page out of Ike Turner's Book, "Smack Her, and She'll Behave: My Life with Tina"

[Palpatine Q]

Yeah, I'm glad you don't take a page out of Ike Turner's Book, "Smack Her, and She'll Behave: My Life with Tina"

Real men don't hit women.

I can understand some of the twinks here hitting them, like Swede, because a normal sized woman is actually a threat to his physical safety.

[CalvinH]

Real men don't hit women.

I can understand some of the twinks here hitting them, like Swede, because a normal sized woman is actually a threat to his physical safety.

Bridget the midget is a threat to his physical safety.


.....unless she's a drunk half passed out on some steps.

[apply85]

It wasn't like drunken rage, it was rough sex as revenge for sleeping with another man