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« on: September 14, 2011, 11:37:50 AM »

So, Im dating a girl.

Ive been out with her like 2 times in a week...she works a lot of hours cant see her often and we text alot (pretty gay)..and chat on the phone a bit.

She has a sweet face ...I really like it. Shes a bit "shy" and I can tell she has a good heart under those oversised tits.  Grin. She has some extra kilos but I dont give a fuck, shes "curvy"...nice kilos not blubber.

Anyway 2 times weve been out I did not do a thing...Im normally like this. I mean touch her and stuff I was a gentleman and made her laugh a lot. I think she likes me ALOT.

SO my question is should I continue like that or should I get more "active" and play with her. I normally go slowly.

what do you pornstars think?
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« Reply #1 on: September 14, 2011, 11:38:48 AM »

outed.
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« Reply #2 on: September 14, 2011, 11:40:23 AM »

If you think you might like her a lot keep going slow.
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« Reply #3 on: September 14, 2011, 11:40:39 AM »

You have to try to get her in the sack... She's not into you if she's not sleeping with you.

After date 3, you should be able to sleep with her.

If you try to lay the pipe on her and she rejects it, for any reason after date 3... Move on, she's not into you.
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« Reply #4 on: September 14, 2011, 11:42:07 AM »

After completing my upright rows I say to make out next time with the chick etc.
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« Reply #5 on: September 14, 2011, 11:42:52 AM »

im not that desperate to "fuck"...and i wonder what she wants..i mean its obvious she wants the cock but how she wants it.. I dont want to look like a jackass trying to fuck as quick as possible.
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« Reply #6 on: September 14, 2011, 11:46:41 AM »

So, Im dating a girl.

Ive been out with her like 2 times in a week...she works a lot of hours cant see her often and we text alot (pretty gay)..and chat on the phone a bit.

She has a sweet face ...I really like it. Shes a bit "shy" and I can tell she has a good heart under those oversised tits.  Grin. She has some extra kilos but I dont give a fuck, shes "curvy"...nice kilos not blubber.

Anyway 2 times weve been out I did not do a thing...Im normally like this. I mean touch her and stuff I was a gentleman and made her laugh a lot. I think she likes me ALOT.

SO my question is should I continue like that or should I get more "active" and play with her. I normally go slowly.

what do you pornstars think?

Great situation- obvious mutual interest. I guess nature will take its course whatever you decide, so just go with the flow ;-).

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« Reply #7 on: September 14, 2011, 11:48:28 AM »

Hell she even commented on my mindblowing arms, delts and crazy vascularity covering them.

At the cafe everyone stared at me and I would hear comments like "pills...", "what is he on...", "ridiculus" and stuff.  Grin Cheesy

back on topic. Grin
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« Reply #8 on: September 14, 2011, 11:48:49 AM »

Add alcohol.

Let nature take its course.

"Accidentally" spilling a little merlot (outed) on your shirt, then taking it off to change is a slick way to get her squishy.  

Or so I'm told.
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« Reply #9 on: September 14, 2011, 11:49:36 AM »

im not that desperate to "fuck"...and i wonder what she wants..i mean its obvious she wants the cock but how she wants it.. I dont want to look like a jackass trying to fuck as quick as possible.

If the female thinks you look like a jackass because you're sexually attracted to her and want to have sex, then she probably doesn't like you as much as she's saying she does.

That's not a slight, but it's often the truth... Women will play the "waiting" game because they having some ulterior motive.

Once you have sex with the girl, odds are then that she is truly yours.

I once went out with a girl for the better part  of a month... Everything was cool, then one day she basically tells me that this "ex" of hers wants to try again, and she's inclined to give it a shot.

In reality, she was using dating me, to make him jealous... It worked, and she was happy.

I had never had sex with girl... never did... because she wasn't really into me. She was into someone else.

Just some food for thought.
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« Reply #10 on: September 14, 2011, 11:50:19 AM »

at some point in time you have to give her "THE DICK" or her friends will start telling her you have a small cock and too ashamed to hit her with it....  don't go past 2 or 3 dates without getting at least a hand job, it will show her your sexually attracted to her, but still want to get her know her better  Wink
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« Reply #11 on: September 14, 2011, 11:50:34 AM »

Good question...nothing wrong in liking a girl who wont blow you after 15 min into the first date. Well since your not too overly touchy with her you still want to initiate contact but on a subtle level...for instance..crossing the street, hold her hand (dont ask just do it as if you need to) then let go. If you go out to eat, dont sit across... ie: if your in a booth, sit next to her and tell the waitress you'll just need one menu. Another little trick is when you open the door for her, push her along with your hand on the small of her back..not on her ass. You should (if you havent already) compliment her on stuff that isnt sexually charged .. like say... "I just have to say you have the kindest eyes" ...or " Nice shoes...." I know kinda gay but it will work. And lastly when you end the next date just go in for a kiss on the cheek and a hug...pull away look at her and if she is down, she will plant one on you ...

Hope that helps.
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« Reply #12 on: September 14, 2011, 11:52:12 AM »

If the female thinks you look like a jackass because you're sexually attracted to her and want to have sex, then she probably doesn't like you as much as she's saying she does.

That's not a slight, but it's often the truth... Women will play the "waiting" game because they having some ulterior motive.

Once you have sex with the girl, odds are then that she is truly yours.

I once went out with a girl for the better part  of a month... Everything was cool, then one day she basically tells me that this "ex" of hers wants to try again, and she's inclined to give it a shot.

In reality, she was using dating me, to make him jealous... It worked, and she was happy.

I had never had sex with girl... never did... because she wasn't really into me. She was into someone else.

Just some food for thought.
Ive been into similar situation...especially if youre a guy that takes care of himself, workouts and is in shape..she can easily use you, abuse you to her own benefit.
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« Reply #13 on: September 14, 2011, 11:53:32 AM »

Add alcohol.

Let nature take its course.

"Accidentally" spilling a little merlot (outed) on your shirt, then taking it off to change is a slick way to get her squishy.  

Or so I'm told.
I will use it... although im afraid to go "catabolic" or "spill over".  Cool
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« Reply #14 on: September 14, 2011, 11:53:53 AM »

never give your heart to a woman, fellahs.

you enjoy 'your turn' with them.

you never 'give in' 100% and they'll love you forever.

the SECOND you give them everything, you get crushed.  
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« Reply #15 on: September 14, 2011, 11:54:41 AM »

You better not take it too slow or you might end up in the "friend zone"...  Women know that you want to fuck them and the "innocent" ones will make you wait a few dates, but if you don't come on strong sooner or later she will get more and more comfortable with not having sex with you and then know they have the power over it.

You need to make it clear to her.  You seem to be a young kid asking these questions. Only teens kiss and hug and not talk about sex openly.  When you get to your 30's talking about sex with any women is common on the first date.  Don't be a shy bitch or it will bite you in the ass.

Most women just need some lube to get going.  Mostly they want some white zinfadel $5 bottle of wine.  A couple glasses and they are lubed to fuck.  Smoking dope with a girl won't get you sex.

Get her a little tipsy on cheap wine and you should be fine.

Speak openly about sex.  Tell her how much she turns you on.  How much your cock throbs when you think of her.  Make her feel like a sexual kitten and not a friend.  Women want to be treated as sexy and hot and you need to make it clear to her.
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« Reply #16 on: September 14, 2011, 11:54:55 AM »

never give your heart to a woman, fellahs.

you enjoy 'your turn' with them.

you never 'give in' 100% and they'll love you forever.

the SECOND you give them everything, you get crushed.  

Did this come to you when you were in the hot-tub or before you go in ....heheheeh
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« Reply #17 on: September 14, 2011, 11:55:55 AM »

I will use it... although im afraid to go "catabolic" or "spill over".  Cool

I didn't say YOU had to drink Smiley  

I like the diet mt dew/mertlot combination.

You can make hers heavy, and yours with very little alcohol.

the caff will keep her awake so she doesn't decide she's sleepy and wants to leave.
the merlot will dehydrate her after 2 drinks - and when she drinks a bottled water to 'sober up', she'll very quickly get drunk.
And it tastes good too.

Being able to manage your own quantity while controlling hers is awesome.  Mix her strong, and you still have your sense to drive, fight, use a condom, and make good decisions.  if you wanna get sloshed, do it at home during MNF.
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« Reply #18 on: September 14, 2011, 11:56:39 AM »

If you want my honest opinion get all these rules out of your head about when is the right time to get physical with her. Women fuck in bathrooms with guys that they have a connection with and they're not all sluts either.
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« Reply #19 on: September 14, 2011, 11:57:17 AM »

Invite her to your house for a movie. It will work.
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« Reply #20 on: September 14, 2011, 11:57:34 AM »

what makes u nervous about touching her
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« Reply #21 on: September 14, 2011, 11:57:48 AM »

Good question...nothing wrong in liking a girl who wont blow you after 15 min into the first date. Well since your not too overly touchy with her you still want to initiate contact but on a subtle level...for instance..crossing the street, hold her hand (dont ask just do it as if you need to) then let go. If you go out to eat, dont sit across... ie: if your in a booth, sit next to her and tell the waitress you'll just need one menu. Another little trick is when you open the door for her, push her along with your hand on the small of her back..not on her ass. You should (if you havent already) compliment her on stuff that isnt sexually charged .. like say... "I just have to say you have the kindest eyes" ...or " Nice shoes...." I know kinda gay but it will work. And lastly when you end the next date just go in for a kiss on the cheek and a hug...pull away look at her and if she is down, she will plant one on you ...

Hope that helps.
Solid advice.

yes those 2 times we sat down next to each other and sometimes I would pass my arm and "hug" her seat. I would get an insane pump and my arm would go numb so I pulled back at times, then again. rofl.
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« Reply #22 on: September 14, 2011, 11:57:55 AM »

mon_of_steele she is taking it slow, you only apply those methods to whores you meet in the club ....A good girl will think he is 'just like every other guy' once you tell that 'my cock is throbbing for your kitten' story....
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« Reply #23 on: September 14, 2011, 11:58:43 AM »

Did this come to you when you were in the hot-tub or before you go in ....heheheeh

HAHAHA

Hot tub incident = perfect example!  Never give your heart to any of them.  When you finish and go home grinning, still retaining your own heart, you retain control.

The minute you say "I'm yours!"  -  She will start figuring out reasons to run.  She'll have climbed that mountain, conquered that challenge.  You never say "YES" and you never let them reach that peak, and you'll have girls bringing you dinner and presents and everything else trying to win you.

never let them win.  That's my word.
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« Reply #24 on: September 14, 2011, 12:00:39 PM »

I think she likes me ALOT.

Game over.
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