The truth is the really dedicated guys don't give a fuck about getting women, they do it cuz they love it.
I've been lifting for almost 30 years....I remember a LONG ass time ago a friend of mine said..."dude, ...you have a hot GF, why do you still do this shit??"
And i looked at him like he has three heads, and said "i don't do this to get chicks..i do it for me, I'll NEVER stop"
you can't hate on that though. I dont love training,lifting weights is "ok"" and I would rather spend my spare time doing other things . I mean I wish I did enjoy training, and was one of those guys who lived for the next workout, I would probably look alot better by now

But I dont lie to myself and try to be some gym "warrior" .. I think it's just one of those things you can't teach or "get", you either have that fire inside you or you dont.. Nothing worse than a guy who comes in the gym twice a week, and has his buddies pat him on the back for screaming under a set of preacher curls like he just won the O for fuck sake

, if you lift weights for women NO SHAME in that, just don't lie to yourself. When I'm in the gym and I see guys who have battle scars from the iron, whether it be powerlifter bodbuilder or typical gym rat just someone who you can tell knows what they are doing and has been around the block, I always know my place. Doesn't mean I kiss their ass but I always go out of the way to show them that little extra courtesy. And if I was in their place 10 years down the road from now I would expect the same.