I just did.
Don't get me wrong I don't think african girls are that great. It's a known fact that african american girls are so dam bad. I like dark skinned women(of any race) and African American girls are just unbearable there like white bitches, except the high class ones are none existent,also I'm white so there's a completely unwanted bullshit with that as well.
As I said, females smell certain dudes, and many African chicks are on the make, have you thinking one thing, and play the role. There is a West African saying, "Never Trust a Nigerian", for good reason (now, I have met many good Nigerians, it's certain ethnic groups within Nigerian that pride themselves about being sneaky)
it depends on what type of Am black chick---if you are dealing with bottom barrel ghetto chicks, then yeah. 99%
of the black women in my life and have dated have been goal oriented, non-trifling, positive women. And I went to a HBCU, a very prominant one on the East Coast.
I've seen a lot of "ghetto" bad attitude having ones as well---I don't deal with them. And when I do, I let em know from the jump I am not dealing with the foolishness.
The reason why many men like them submissive types, is that they are too scared to put their foot down, when need be, and let the females run over them. They get tire of it. Let people know you don't deal with foolishness, and if it continues, show em the door---shit usually stops.
Today's man wasn't shown have to have a backbone---so many want a female that bends more than they do.
I'm sick of this whole idea that men just want submissive women from other countries total crock of shit.
I simply have no interest in dating a contradiction, if you wanna wear the pants pay the bills, if not suck me off
and shut up.
I'd much rather date a tomb boyish girl, have in the past and it's preferable to any other combo, smart chicks is
where it's at and always will be.
Said part is most guys don't get this, they want a smart chick but aren't smart enough/put together/successful enough for them, at the same time they are hypocrits that won't stick to their own kind.
You are sick of it because it's true! You just admitted to it in what and how you said it.
Furthermore your ass is 24, you hardly have any damn bills---wait until you are in your late 20s early 30s and the female is making more money than you or has degrees up the ass!
She'll tell you go to he'll real quick, because she doesn't need you for Jack.
When a woman is driving the Benz that she bought with her own damn money, her own damn clothes and owning her own damn house, and you come with that little attitude, "I'm the man!", she'll ask where is your balls.
Your tirade just proved something...your lack of communication of what you want, and your frustration about being a male in today's society---you are having things taken away from you and you are not putting your foot down.