Sex this, mental that, bodies built for this, whore, slut, pig, dog.....blah blah blah.
All this comparison after the damage has been done. All of these aging girls and boys in the bodies of adults share same thing, no two, let alone boy and girl are raised the same or with the same type of boundaries.
Simple example, if Johnny cries....."Ok, enough of that, it's not that bad, you gotta toughen up there Johnny, get over it, you're crying like a girl, suck it up, etc..."
If Sally cries....."Oh, there there Sally, hugs, who did this to you, hugs, what happened, it's ok, hugs, let's get some hot chocolate n' make you feel better....."
So now we are older and we wonder why we do not get along, successful marriages, etc. How could we, we have two different mindsets. But now we are old enough to label insults due to our own frustration or misunderstanding, ( doesn't make it easier, but before we could contemplate fixing, we must understand.)
I do not discount underlying forces that attract the sexes, but to dismiss the mental training since we are born is foolish.
Aging boys think girls are whores for justifying their lives based on emotions......
Aging girls think boys are dogs for actin' tough and misunderstanding their emotions......