My biggest problem is a girl that I met last year. We have gotten very close in that time and have had nice long conversations on the phone and face to face about everything. We have tremendous chemistry, respect and attraction for one another and for the first time I think I found the perfect girl for me (no joke). The problem is that she is married and has a house, dog, etc. (no kids) She knows of my feelings for her and I know her's for me and if things were different we would be together. It would be great for both of us because we are so alike. I was in a serious relationship 2 years ago and after that debacle I wanted nothing to do with women, that is until I met her. But now that I found her things have been worse because she wants to be with me and I want to be with her so badly but it's never going to happen. She won't cheat on her husband and I don't want her to, we want to be more than an affair because real feelings are involved. So just recently I have been ignoring her at work (I only see her twice a week) and she called me on Thursday to find out why and I never called her back. It was devastating because I want to be with her so badly. But why would I want to put myself through this shit? Guess I'm going to be alone for a lot longer...at least I don't have to answer to anybody but man, this sucks...
Any advice? Be gentle...