Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.
Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
You just know everything about me don't you?
Here's a quick synopsis of my life.
Born in small town, grew up in smaller town, work hard country boy ethic.
I went to 2 Elementarily, 3 JR Highs and 1 High school. So yeah we moved around a lot.
Most of my childhood was spent in trailer houses (till about 12 in which we moved to
apartment in bigger city) Have a great relationship with my father, my mom and I have
similar dominating attitudes so we get in spats from time to time but love her with all my heart.
Was in sports all my childhood but once we started moving I quit and became addicted to video
games. Sitting in the house all day eating down home cooking is a quick recipe for a large gut.
Far from being the loser kid but far from being the cool guy either. Graduated high school at 325lbs
and after having noticed I have bigger breasts than my sister I decided it was time for a life change.
Completely motivated by my parents (Their go-getters, self employed now and decently successful)
I decided I was done living my life as the big fat guy and would from there on out would aspire to become
the big buff guy (uncle played college foot ball, have a 2nd cousin who is NFL Linebacker) so I had plenty
to look up to and want to be all my life.
Trying to lay a blanket statement on someones life is a pretty dumb thing to do. Just because someone wants
to be bigger and better each and everyday doesn't mean they are nearly homo, girly men, have no relationship with
their parents, or anything you said... I have a amazing girlfriend and have been together working on 4 years now.
I'm paying my dues in college and have the same entrepreneur go-getter attitude of my parents. Contrary to what you
may think of me I'm going places in my life and not here making nonsensical statements about others while doing so.
Have a good day
