talk on internet
talk on phone, MULTIPLE TIMES
then meet up one on one
these are the steps, as gh15 said above, and he said don't pretend to be someone you're not. that's like telling a dog not to wag it's tale, whatever you either date real girls and learn to truly not be a bullshitter or you give in and start dating fake girls or don;t date at all, just fap fap fap it to internet porno ballonie and every once in a while take home a woman for a one night stand, which i don;t even count as sex
a role for a woman is this: she sees the real you, she reinforces in you the belief that indeed you are good, this gives you the confidence to go out and conquer as a man, to get that job, to get that status
if you are some lone wolf and think that you don;t need anyone, let me tell you, you are at such a disadvantage you don't even know. do you wonder how guys can just walk into a room and not say a word and women star to gravitate toward them while you are still in the stage of trying to say the right thing, trying to come up with what do u think the girl wants to hear? it's because the love of a woman has reinforced them, has strengthened them. this is what's called confidence