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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #1 on: December 31, 2011, 09:23:09 PM »
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #2 on: December 31, 2011, 09:36:38 PM »
Why does anyone cheat? Probably because they get bored with their current partner.

Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe. What I don't get is juggling a couple of romances at once. Maybe that's why it is called cheating; you can't be romantically involved with more than one person with out someone being cheated on attention.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #3 on: December 31, 2011, 09:38:40 PM »
Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe.

What an asshole.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #4 on: December 31, 2011, 09:47:03 PM »
Why does anyone cheat? Probably because they get bored with their current partner.

Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe. What I don't get is juggling a couple of romances at once. Maybe that's why it is called cheating; you can't be romantically involved with more than one person with out someone being cheated on attention.

Fuck dude, you've got some problems. What an asshole.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #5 on: December 31, 2011, 09:48:33 PM »
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #7 on: December 31, 2011, 09:50:46 PM »
Why does anyone cheat? Probably because they get bored with their current partner.

Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe. What I don't get is juggling a couple of romances at once. Maybe that's why it is called cheating; you can't be romantically involved with more than one person with out someone being cheated on attention.

You once said you we're teacher for like 30 years. How can you be a teacher and not know the basics of right and wrong........oh wait. Let me guess, the PS systems?

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #8 on: December 31, 2011, 10:27:05 PM »
What an asshole.

Right! This does make me seem like an asshole, doesn't it. Perhaps this is because I neglected to mention that I believe whatever is good for the gander is good for the goose too. Furthermore, I am not suggesting everyone go out and screw as many people as possible on the side.

In Mating in Captivity, author and family therapist Esther Perel argues that the grip of fidelity may be doing more harm than good. She asks if a decades-old marriage should be scrapped because of a one-night moment of weakness. Noting record divorce rates, she writes "despite the fact that monogamy is a ship sinking faster than anyone can bail it out, we continue to cling to the wreckage with absolute faith in its structural soundness."

Very few affairs end in marriage. According to one large study of business men who had affairs, only 3 percent of the men married their lovers
The statistics may shock you.

No one begins a marriage expecting to cheat on their spouse. Vows are exchanged, promises are made and the marriage begins with love and high hopes.

And yet, according to the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, approximately 50 percent married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some time in their marriage. And since it is unlikely that the people having affairs are married to each other in every case, the current statistics on the percentage of married couples who cheat on each other means that someone is having an affair in nearly 80 percent of marriages.

I may be an asshole, but I am just stating the obvious, it seems.  Many people in committed relationships have affairs. In my opinion, the complications from doing this is greatly increased when it is more than just sex; when it is a love affair.  


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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #9 on: December 31, 2011, 10:28:52 PM »
WHY D0 W0MEN CHEAT?

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #10 on: December 31, 2011, 10:30:09 PM »
People cheat for various reasons.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #11 on: December 31, 2011, 10:32:48 PM »
WHY D0 W0MEN CHEAT?
Probably because they are unhappy in the relationship.  If a man isn't looking after a woman emotionally or making her feel appreciated, then she might start looking elsewhere for her needs to be fulfilled.  Men cheat for this reason too sometimes, but I think that men also cheat because of ego....they want to know that they can still pull women. 

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #12 on: December 31, 2011, 10:34:31 PM »
You should see the EMOTIONAL AFFIARS that go on at my job..Between married men and married women..All I work with are Divorcees, Single Mothers and Divorced/Single Mothers..LOL! All of them Dying for attention.It's almost like a soap opera in real life. Who is close to who, then who fell out with who..Boils down to what you ARE NOT getting at home..Or you may be bored with it and look sor some excitement outside of the marriage/relationship. Now if that's the case and you have tried to be fed at home.. and aren't..and you know that divorcing will be a finacial nightmare. Would you be willing to get a little on the side if both parties are in agreement?

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #13 on: December 31, 2011, 10:38:03 PM »
You once said you we're teacher for like 30 years. How can you be a teacher and not know the basics of right and wrong........oh wait. Let me guess, the PS systems?

Actually, I never said I was a teacher. I worked for a school district as a specialist in buildings and maintenance.

I know the basics of right and wrong very well. I would venture a guess that I live a much more moral life than most folks do. I am simply not judgmental, like some other folks are. Since I am not telling you what to do with your life, I am not sure why you feel the need to pass judgment on me.



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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #14 on: December 31, 2011, 10:46:54 PM »
Fuck dude, you've got some problems. What an asshole.

Actually no, I don't have any problems. My wife and I have been happily married for 47 years as of last October. I'm not out cheating nor is she. She's sitting right next to me as I write this, in fact.

I'd suggest that you may be the one with a problem in that you feel the need to call me, who you don't know at all, an asshole based simply on our difference of opinion about logic and relationships.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #15 on: December 31, 2011, 10:48:26 PM »
You should see the EMOTIONAL AFFIARS that go on at my job..Between married men and married women..All I work with are Divorcees, Single Mothers and Divorced/Single Mothers..LOL! All of them Dying for attention.It's almost like a soap opera in real life. Who is close to who, then who fell out with who..Boils down to what you ARE NOT getting at home..Or you may be bored with it and look sor some excitement outside of the marriage/relationship. Now if that's the case and you have tried to be fed at home.. and aren't..and you know that divorcing will be a finacial nightmare. Would you be willing to get a little on the side if both parties are in agreement?

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #16 on: December 31, 2011, 10:51:11 PM »
Actually, I never said I was a teacher. I worked for a school district as a specialist in buildings and maintenance.

your career goal was concierge??

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #17 on: December 31, 2011, 10:59:41 PM »
your career goal was concierge??

Sure whatever. Apparently, you have no idea what a specialist is. Well that's OK...I am not so sure I know what was so "special" about me either. All I did was run the custodial department for a school district with over thirty buildings most of them schools. It wasn't rocket science, that's for sure.

And no, that wasn't my career goal. My career goal at one time was to be a set decorator in the film industry. Later my career goal was to be an aristocrat, but that didn't pan out either. LOL.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #18 on: December 31, 2011, 11:03:21 PM »



Another dumb concept men have... Thats 2 less women in your life.

You should have posted two guys kissing (not that I want to see it). Thats 2 less men to compete against.

The proof is I have a friend whos wife left him for a women. Thats gotta hurt... So how was the movie hunny (kiss). And why does your face smell like pussy?

I know a few girls that are bi and it aint because they want a guy to join in. Thats one step from full lesbian.
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #19 on: December 31, 2011, 11:35:04 PM »
the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,

rule of thumb

no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always

now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....

be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #20 on: January 01, 2012, 12:51:49 AM »
the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,

rule of thumb

no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always

now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....

be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #22 on: January 01, 2012, 01:01:16 AM »
Probably because they are unhappy in the relationship.  If a man isn't looking after a woman emotionally or making her feel appreciated, then she might start looking elsewhere for her needs to be fulfilled.  Men cheat for this reason too sometimes, but I think that men also cheat because of ego....they want to know that they can still pull women. 

Its usually exactly the opposite, If a man is looking after a woman emotionally and making her feel appreciated, hes the one who will get cheated.

Sad but true.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #23 on: January 01, 2012, 03:25:50 AM »
the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,

rule of thumb

no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always

now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....

be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat?
« Reply #24 on: January 01, 2012, 03:40:21 AM »
Quoted for truth. God has spoken.

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