I agree in principle that if she won't diet strict then she shouldn't use....but a whole lot of us are being hypocrites with that. I mean how many of us have juiced and really only half-assessing counted our protein and nothing else.
And yes....I know the weight is going to go up (which is part of why I want her to lose a lot now). When we met she was about 140 and looked great, but every ounce she gained went straight to het stomach....no extra ass....no cup size bump....so yeah, its been tough keeping the same enthusiasm in the bedroom. At the end of the day, I love her for the person she is....but wouldn't mind if that person was in a smokin' hot shell.
The "person she is" will double...because you've shown that you are ok with her weight gain...
She has her cake, and she will eat it too, all of it.
Women do that "lose weight before..." deal, which includes, Homecoming, Prom, graduation, vacations to the beach, weddings...even if they are not getting married,
and you know what? They gain it back. Accept it, you will marry a fat chick, and once she has kids, she'll get bigger...
It's up to her to discipline herself, and both of you to keep good foods in the house---no sodas, junk food, stop going to fast food joints, going out to eat. And stay at home and preparing meals.
