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« on: January 25, 2018, 12:55:31 AM »

https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/25/health/cuckolding-sex-kerner/index.html
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« Reply #1 on: January 25, 2018, 01:59:34 AM »

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« Reply #2 on: January 25, 2018, 02:40:02 AM »

(CNN)In our current political climate, the term "cuck" -- short for "cuckservative" -- has become an insult of the so-called alt-right, aimed at men they view as spineless and emasculated. The slur has its roots in the concept of cuckolding, or having an adulterous partner.

But, according to a recent study by David Ley, Justin Lehmiller and the writer Dan Savage, acting on cuckolding fantasies can be a largely positive experience for many couples, and hardly a sign of weakness.
References to cuckolding appear in literature as early as the 13th century, usually in the form of male characters who fear that their child has been sired by another man during an act of infidelity. Today, however, cuckolding has become fetishized into a powerful sexual fantasy for some men, who get aroused by the idea of their romantic partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else. Women also share this fantasy, but less so than men.

"This fantasy has been around as long as marriage and sexuality," said Ley, whose book "Insatiable Wives" addresses cuckolding in heterosexual couples. "But we're hearing more and more about it these days, and more people are rejecting the social stigma against this fantasy."

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Indeed, the numbers suggest that cuckolding, or at least thinking about it, is more common than you might imagine. For his forthcoming book, "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help Improve Your Sex Life," Lehmiller surveyed thousands of Americans and found that 58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding.

"Men are more likely to fantasize about cuckolding, and they do it more often -- but there are a number of women who have these fantasies as well, which points to the need for more research focused on women's cuckolding desires," Lehmiller said.

Initially viewed as a heterosexual phenomenon, it's increasingly prevalent among gay men, too. "I'd long gotten letters from straight couples into cuckolding (usually initiated by the husband), but none from gay couples until after marriage equality began to gather steam," explained writer and activist Savage. To learn more, Savage joined with Lehmiller and Ley for a study of cuckolding fantasies and experiences in 580 gay men.

Their findings suggest that there are similarities between the way gay and straight men view cuckolding, but clear differences, too. Most notably, interracial and BDSM themes don't appear to be as common in gay men's cuckolding fantasies as they are among heterosexual men. The motivations behind these fantasies may also be different.

Part of what makes cuckolding arousing for heterosexual men is that they tend to view it as a taboo act. "In a society or culture that idealizes monogamy, the cuckold fantasy is a current narrative that is available to people to conceptualize their sexual fantasies," said Ley.

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But that may not be an influence for everyone. "For gay men, cuckolding isn't quite as taboo because the norm of lifelong monogamy isn't so strong in the LGBT community; however, it can still be arousing for a number of other reasons," said Lehmiller. For instance, fantasies about voyeurism and group sex seem to overlap with those about cuckolding in these men. "It's a sexual desire that can be easily customized to meet a wide range of sexual needs and desires, whether it's taboo sex, novelty, voyeurism or something else," he told me.

And the emotions surrounding seeing your partner with someone else can add to the turn-on, explained Savage. "It's not cuckolding if there isn't an element of humiliation, degradation or denial," he said. "Our erotic imaginations have the ability to turn shame lemons into delicious kink lemonade."

As a sex therapist, one of the more intriguing findings from this study involves the impact of cuckolding on relationships.

"Overall, our research found that for the most part, cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behavior," said Ley. "It doesn't appear to be evidence of disturbance, of an unhealthy relationship, or of disregard for one's partner." But there's an important caveat, added Lehmiller. "We found several personality factors that predict more positive experiences acting on cuckolding fantasies. For those who have a lot of relationship anxiety or abandonment issues, who lack intimacy and communication, and who aren't careful, detail-oriented planners, acting on a consensual non-monogamy fantasy could very well be a negative experience," he said. "In other words, not everyone who has a cuckolding fantasy should think about acting on it."

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Remember that sometimes just sharing a sexy thought can be arousing enough -- you don't have to follow through. If you are thinking about acting on a cuckolding fantasy, it's worth stepping back first and making sure your relationship is in a good place and that you have strong sexual communication skills.

"For men and couples considering the issue of cuckolding, it's important there be honesty, integrity, communication, mutuality and shared values," advised Ley. "I've seen men who try to trick their wives into cuckolding them, and this never, ever ends up well."

For couples who do decide to move forward, it's important to take things slow. "The reality of watching your spouse have sex with someone else -- or knowing they're doing it, if you're not there -- is often very different than the fantasy. It can dredge up powerful emotions, so take baby steps and keep talking and communicating," said Savage. "That said, the rewards can be amazing, according to couples who have successfully folded cuckold play into their relationships."
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« Reply #3 on: January 25, 2018, 03:12:32 AM »

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« Reply #4 on: January 25, 2018, 04:31:09 AM »

I'm already familiar with that fag*ot kike Savage from when he had a column in the Mercury years ago.  He's the founder of the “It Gets Better Project”–a YouTube channel aimed at children to encourage them that they can be happy, gay adults.

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It was obvious to me who was behind the promotion of this degeneracy but I decided to look them up anyway and imagine my surprise when I learned they're all kikes. It’s a sign, though, that normalizing adultery is next on the Jewish list of perversions to be promoted to the guillable goy.

david ley is a clinical psychologist who wrote a book arguing that sex addiction doesn't exist.




Justin J. Lehmiller the homosexual professor of social psychology at Ball State University




Here he is promoting another jew's sex book on his blog.

https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2016/4/26/absurd-sex-laws

Sex and Punishment: Four Thousand Years of Judging Desire by Eric Berkowitz.

“Throughout the Middle Ages and the Renaissance, the Jew was considered an agent of Satan, a sexual deviant…Sex with Jews was almost always tightly restricted and sometimes punishable with death.”

Gee, I wonder why...
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« Reply #5 on: January 25, 2018, 05:55:15 AM »

Look at the de-evolution of western society, in the last 10 years.

Read about how satan will destroy the world.

Compare, and think about it.
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« Reply #6 on: January 25, 2018, 05:56:43 AM »

This is CNN.
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« Reply #7 on: January 25, 2018, 06:30:04 AM »

This is CNN.

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« Reply #8 on: January 25, 2018, 07:18:09 AM »

Disgusting. Can’t wait till this world ends.

Fucking weirdos and pussyfied males these days.
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« Reply #9 on: January 25, 2018, 02:21:22 PM »

CNN = Crap Nonsense Network
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« Reply #10 on: January 25, 2018, 03:13:44 PM »

Disgusting. Can’t wait till this world ends.

Fucking weirdos and pussyfied males these days.

This.
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« Reply #11 on: January 25, 2018, 03:18:55 PM »

Nothing more beta-male than this fuck nonsense.

Reminds me of a few girls I fucked and their bf /husband, some clients (like my youngest sons mom/client n her husband) knew or were in the same house. Weird as fuck but at the time wasn't like I was gonna say no. Esp with 4g of test in my bloodstream.
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« Reply #12 on: January 25, 2018, 03:23:12 PM »

Disgusting. Can’t wait till this world ends.

Fucking weirdos and pussyfied males these days.

boom - the wait will not be too much longer, now
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« Reply #13 on: January 25, 2018, 03:27:36 PM »

I've read books and they refer to it. I've said this in another thread, but the terms been around awhile and is named after the cuckoo bird.
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« Reply #14 on: January 25, 2018, 03:59:46 PM »

Disgusting. Can’t wait till this world ends.



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« Reply #15 on: January 25, 2018, 05:01:13 PM »





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« Reply #16 on: January 25, 2018, 05:09:38 PM »

(CNN)In our current political climate, the term "cuck" -- short for "cuckservative" -- has become an insult of the so-called alt-right, aimed at men they view as spineless and emasculated. The slur has its roots in the concept of cuckolding, or having an adulterous partner.

Cute that the article references "cuckservatives" when I'd bet you dollars to donuts that the people involved in this cuck culture are dickless, beta, leftist, soyboy Democrat swine like the pile of shit who wrote this article.
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« Reply #17 on: January 25, 2018, 05:37:25 PM »

Nothing more beta-male than this fuck nonsense.

Reminds me of a few girls I fucked and their bf /husband, some clients (like my youngest sons mom/client n her husband) knew or were in the same house. Weird as fuck but at the time wasn't like I was gonna say no. Esp with 4g of test in my bloodstream.

the  bf /husband watched you or joined you ?
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« Reply #18 on: January 25, 2018, 06:29:54 PM »

the  bf /husband watched you or joined you ?

Nah, in the next room or same house. One client got pregnant n her husband knew.. Had to know, the baby isn't his since they'd been trying to get preg for 2yrs. I train her for a month before she they have an argument and and kinda let's him know about me and he leaves, comes back the next day while she's with me for a cpl hrs, packs ALL his clothes and emails her while I'm with her all their bank acct and credit card info and how he's splitting this and that etc... Even emails my fiance and tells her (turns out she had already contacted him and planted the suspicion).. 3 days later he moves back in and STILL pays me another $800 to train her another month lol.. By the end of that month, after her being "at the gym" for 4hrs a day, me and her were done and she was pregnant despite her not sleeping with him more than twice. Lol.. Dude knew what was going on.. Even came to the gym with his cousin in law (I trained his cousin and his wife as well. Wife's a famous singer in Chile) and introduced himself "hi, I'm so-n-so husband", and shook my hand while in was training another female client who knew about the whole situation lol..as if I didn't know who he was. In retrospect, I absolutely would've married that girl. Fucken gorgeous.    *actually, referring to the other thread regarding busty girls wanting breast reductions, she wanted one as well. Never wore (still doesn't) revealing shirts/tops though.

*only girl I fucked in front of somebody else (that I can think of off top of my head at least, was the sister of this tranny and their feminine gay friend (all in town from the Philippines for some badminton tourney or exhibition or whatever. Only reason I did that was because I'd already taken my Viagra/cialis before arriving n before I knew the chic was a tranny. Lol didn't wanna waste the Viagra and deal with the headache on the drive home
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« Reply #20 on: January 26, 2018, 04:29:48 AM »

Nah, in the next room or same house. One client got pregnant n her husband knew.. Had to know, the baby isn't his since they'd been trying to get preg for 2yrs. I train her for a month before she they have an argument and and kinda let's him know about me and he leaves, comes back the next day while she's with me for a cpl hrs, packs ALL his clothes and emails her while I'm with her all their bank acct and credit card info and how he's splitting this and that etc... Even emails my fiance and tells her (turns out she had already contacted him and planted the suspicion).. 3 days later he moves back in and STILL pays me another $800 to train her another month lol.. By the end of that month, after her being "at the gym" for 4hrs a day, me and her were done and she was pregnant despite her not sleeping with him more than twice. Lol.. Dude knew what was going on.. Even came to the gym with his cousin in law (I trained his cousin and his wife as well. Wife's a famous singer in Chile) and introduced himself "hi, I'm so-n-so husband", and shook my hand while in was training another female client who knew about the whole situation lol..as if I didn't know who he was. In retrospect, I absolutely would've married that girl. Fucken gorgeous.    *actually, referring to the other thread regarding busty girls wanting breast reductions, she wanted one as well. Never wore (still doesn't) revealing shirts/tops though.

*only girl I fucked in front of somebody else (that I can think of off top of my head at least, was the sister of this tranny and their feminine gay friend (all in town from the Philippines for some badminton tourney or exhibition or whatever. Only reason I did that was because I'd already taken my Viagra/cialis before arriving n before I knew the chic was a tranny. Lol didn't wanna waste the Viagra and deal with the headache on the drive home


Reminds me of the Family Guy episode when Brian gets addicted to Coke and sniffs Quagmire and says "you had sex with two Filipino women and a man". They were all dudes, bro.


And to the term "cuckservative", it's no different than libtard. A made up insult a step above some 3rd grade ribbing.
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« Reply #21 on: January 26, 2018, 08:59:06 AM »

Disgusting. Can’t wait till this world ends.

Fucking weirdos and pussyfied WHITE males these days.
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« Reply #22 on: January 26, 2018, 10:42:05 AM »


Reminds me of the Family Guy episode when Brian gets addicted to Coke and sniffs Quagmire and says "you had sex with two Filipino women and a man". They were all dudes, bro.


And to the term "cuckservative", it's no different than libtard. A made up insult a step above some 3rd grade ribbing.

Mine? No the girl was a girl... With a vagina
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« Reply #23 on: January 26, 2018, 01:49:06 PM »

It's official.  Liberals are more likely to be unattractive, physically weak, and into cuckolding.

<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNkg78D5iqI" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNkg78D5iqI</a>
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