NEED ADVICE FROM THE GETBIG BRO'S?

[bigmikecox]

Don't move in with her bro. You should have had some meaningful convos at least before you move in. Remember she's a little of center, guide her back, move in when you are ready to move in. But you have to get to know the real her first.

Vagina is a powerful tool!

[Soul Crusher]

Vagina is a powerful tool!

Dude - do not move in with her.   

You think her freakiness ends w just sex? 

God only knows the fucking chaos in this chicks' life between ex's, stalkers, other boyfriends and hook ups out there.

Have fun and dont get attached or you are going to get burned BAD. 

[bigmikecox]

Ok, so whats the BEST way to tell her im not moving in?  Im not good with confrotation and usually end up making some bullshit story up as to why i cant do something

Please dont say just be honest with her?

[Wiggs]

Vagina is a powerful tool!

I hear you bro. It will be difficult but you have to go in with your brain on. You need to jerk off 3-4 times before you see her, otherwise you will guarantee fail. Matter of fact, I can't see you saying no...lolz. I had to put myself in your shoes...."never had sex like that."....It's over, your done. Hang it up. lolz.

[Soul Crusher]

Ok, so whats the BEST way to tell her im not moving in?  Im not good with confrotation and usually end up making some bullshit story up as to why i cant do something

Please dont say just be honest with her?

Look at this way - let's say you are at the casino and you placed a $20 bet and are now sitting with $500 in quick winnings.  

The odds are overwhelming that the longer you sit at the table that not only are you going to lose the $480.00 you won, but the initial $20 bet as well correct?  

Same as with this chick - you are way ahead of the house right now and might have to consider cashing in the chips if it means likely losing everything.  

As soon as you move in, things are guaranteed to slow down a bit, YET YET YET - now you will be tied down and forced to adopt some of the chaos and bullshit in this chicks' life.

Think about it.  

[Parker]

Wow Parker, any bad experiences in your past you would like to share with us?    This shit sounds nuts.  

several! Dated a chick who wanted to "off herself". Then some freaks...
When you start being "the problem solver", then it's time to move on. No matter if she's got a booty that resembles Buffy The Body.

[Griffith]

Like galeniko said, just stay over a lot, but keep your place.

At least then you have back-up plan to fall back on if all goes bad. You never know.

[Wiggs]

Look at this way - let's say you are at the casino and you placed a $20 bet and are now sitting with $500 in quick winnings.  

The odds are overwhelming that the longer you sit at the table that not only are you going to lose the $480.00 you won, but the initial $20 bet as well correct?  

Same as with this chick - you are way ahead of the house right now and might have to consider cashing in the chips if it means likely losing everything.  

As soon as you move in, things are guaranteed to slow down a bit, YET YET YET - now you will be tied down and forced to adopt some of the chaos and bullshit in this chicks' life.

Think about it.  

He's right Mike. Tell her that it's a big step and you feel like you should know each other more intimately. (If you really like her option) Or, Tell her, you love hangin' out and spending time with her but you enjoy your space. (Relationship ending option). 

[bigmikecox]

several! Dated a chick who wanted to "off herself". Then some freaks...
When you start being "the problem solver", then it's time to move on. No matter if she's got a booty that resembles Buffy The Body.

EXACTLY!!!  I feel like im solving her problems!!!!

[Soul Crusher]

He's right Mike. Tell her that it's a big step and you feel like you should know each other more intimately. (If you really like her option) Or, Tell her, you love hangin' out and spending time with her but you enjoy your space. (Relationship ending option). 

As soon as he moves in, its over.   Maybe a week or two of crazy sex, and then it will all end.   The newness will wear off and the dirty dishes and dirty laundry piles up, and its GAME OVER   

[bigmikecox]

He's right Mike. Tell her that it's a big step and you feel like you should know each other more intimately. (If you really like her option) Or, Tell her, you love hangin' out and spending time with her but you enjoy your space. (Relationship ending option). 

sounds like you have said this before!

I got to man up and tell her. I may lose that ass but I need to keep my shit drama free.

[Soul Crusher]

EXACTLY!!!  I feel like im solving her problems!!!!

Bro - BANG & RUN

You know how many other dudes before you probably were in the same boat you were right now? 

Guess what?  All those dudes ran away for a reason too.   

[Soul Crusher]

sounds like you have said this before!

I got to man up and tell her. I may lose that ass but I need to keep my shit drama free.

Tell her you cant because you are stuck on a 2 year lease or something w the landlord.  So many ways out of that one. 

[bigmikecox]

Tell her you cant because you are stuck on a 2 year lease or something w the landlord.  So many ways out of that one. 

I like how you think!

See, i get myself into shit like this all the time and it ends badly! I had one bitch stalk me and threaten me. (she is in jail now facing a LOT of charges). Need to stop thinking with my pecker. I really think the androgens causes me to make bad choices

[Parker]

EXACTLY!!!  I feel like im solving her problems!!!!

Stuff always happens to her. Her car breaks down, she calls you. She doesn't know "what to do" in certain situations. You solve it. Family issues, you solve it. And the big one---money issues, she always comes up short, but finds money for what she wants to do, and not for what she needs---rent, food, meds, insurance.
So, you have a mental tab---which you know will never get paid back. Oh, but that booty and the sex is good.
No, man...the problem is, you become the problem solver.

As they said, say you have a 2 yr lease, and you are thinking of going back to school for your masters, phd, JD, and that you need your space and time. You enjoy the time you spend with her, and would like to continue, but you are on another path right now. A path that needs more attention and time.

A decent person should respect another's desire to improve themselves.

[bigmikecox]

Oh one more thing i was told...Ok two

So, we are talking about me banging her ass and she says, "i can take it, but my ex would piss on me first then stick it in my ass"  

She was showing me pics of her old apartment..."See that tree right there, my boss would come over and fuck the hell otu of me under that tree...."  

[bigmikecox]

Stuff always happens to her. Her car breaks down, she calls you. She doesn't know "what to do" in certain situations. You solve it. Family issues, you solve it. And the big one---money issues, she always comes up short, but finds money for what she wants to do, and not for what she needs---rent, food, meds, insurance.
So, you have a mental tab---which you know will never get paid back. Oh, but that booty and the sex is good.
No, man...the problem is, you become the problem solver.

As they said, say you have a 2 yr lease, and you are thinking of going back to school for your masters, phd, JD, and that you need your space and time. You enjoy the time you spend with her, and would like to continue, but you are on another path right now. A path that needs more attention and time.

A decent person should respect another's desire to improve themselves.

here's what im going to do......going to bang her Monday and Tuesday, then tell her Tuesday that we need to slow down. But im saying it AFTER i nut....inside her!

is it weird that she is 42 and acts like this?

[dawakaman]

She is NOT relationship material,and you know it too.
Don't ever move in..you will regret it. I will not lose any sleep if you'd be so dumb to do so..but cmon man..you know this to be true.

I wish you alot of wisdom

Peace

[Natural Man]

So, before i asked a question if having good sex was worth starting a relationship?  The chick is a sex freak, open to anal, and just nasty. Is cool with videos and all kids of stuff! I got some good advice from Parker about it, but the ass has my head TWISTED!!!  Its that good fellas!

She says she isnt banging anyone else, but has a TON of rubbers in her room.  She wants me to move into her place, but my pimp radar is going off like crazy! (tellinig me she is a pimp)

Question: How do you break away from good ass like that?  

she has a fat ass and cellulite, since when is it considered "good" ? It's disgusting and wont age well. Are you black by any chance? Stop trying to convince yourself fat asses are "great" just because that's all you can get. Fat women have weak willpower , are unhealthy, dont know what s even remotely appealing in that.

[Army of One]

If she's a freak in bed, then fine.If she exhibits any of it outside the bedroom to the point that anyone around her for more than a few minutes can tell she's a freak then walk away quickly Heat style.

[outby43]

BMC,  you need to turn in your "Playa Card".  To even contemplate shacking up with this is unthinkable.  Pay this months dues and don't come back, don't talk to us out at the club, do not make eye contact with us.  You have been black balled.

[Wiggs]

BMC,  you need to turn in your "Playa Card".  To even contemplate shacking up with this is unthinkable.  Pay this months dues and don't come back, don't talk to us out at the club, do not make eye contact with us.  You have been black balled.

Lol!

[daddy8ball]

She's giving you all the signals.

DO NOT get emotionally attached. If you do, she will ruin you mentally.

Screw her all day long. Just know that you're the "flavor of the month".

Keep her on the back burner, on "simmer", and keep playing the field.

[The Abdominal Snoman]

She's telling you all about how other dudes would bang her. She doesn't even have the intelligence to keep that shit from you. She is mentally ill bro. Seriously.

[tbombz]

great ass on that bitch, mike. doggystyle must be heaven.