that certainly is a factor. personality, "swagger", is a huge part. also, the bulge in ones pants and the bulge in ones wallet. however if ratard wanted to hookup with guys, then he could do pretty well for himself with just an awesome body, even without much face, personality, or cock (so long as he is a bottom). women are finnicky. the mood has to be right, they need to get good vibes. guys, not so much.
you seem quite the expert on man on man action
this would bring great shame to your woman if ever comes to light
better quit now before too late