Author Topic: How do you make yourself hard? (Read 4870 times)

JediTerminator · « **on:** March 02, 2013, 05:41:39 PM »

Not your dick, but your emotions. Never feeling mercy, sympathy, or remorse for anything you do.

Curious with this since I just watched the movie Juice.

Marty Champions · « **Reply #1 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:43:12 PM »

Quote from: JediTerminator on March 02, 2013, 05:41:39 PM

Not your dick, but your emotions. Never feeling mercy, sympathy, or remorse for anything you do.

Curious with this since I just watched the movie Juice.

indifference is the key to taking out the "trash"

JediTerminator · « **Reply #2 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:43:58 PM »

muscularny · « **Reply #3 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:46:03 PM »

have north korea jail you for 3 years

Marty Champions · « **Reply #4 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:47:04 PM »

Quote from: JediTerminator on March 02, 2013, 05:43:58 PM

?

are you asking how to have a black mindset?

just dont think at all

B_B_C · « **Reply #5 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:47:25 PM »

give your soul to the devil (and find out if he exists )?

JediTerminator · « **Reply #6 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:48:23 PM »

Quote from: Johnny Falcon on March 02, 2013, 05:47:04 PM

are you asking how to have a black mindset?

just dont think at all

now how do you shut off thoughts? because the mind is always thinking. I seen I think it was a Tony Robbins youtube vid where he said you have to act upon the thoughts that help you right now, not what worked before.

CARTEL · « **Reply #7 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:50:14 PM »

I listen to this every morning...

Marty Champions · « **Reply #8 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:55:18 PM »

Quote from: JediTerminator on March 02, 2013, 05:48:23 PM

now how do you shut off thoughts? because the mind is always thinking. I seen I think it was a Tony Robbins youtube vid where he said you have to act upon the thoughts that help you right now, not what worked before.

just be indifferent look up the word , its how i can turn the "not giving a fuck" button on, works very well, helps you focus on whats important

Radical Plato · « **Reply #9 on:** March 02, 2013, 05:56:10 PM »

Quote from: JediTerminator on March 02, 2013, 05:41:39 PM

Not your dick, but your emotions. Never feeling mercy, sympathy, or remorse for anything you do.

Curious with this since I just watched the movie Juice.

You need to have a deep intelligence coupled with indomitable resolve. it is not a matter of not feeling those emotions, it is feeling them and pushing them to one side to focus on the here and now. It is choosing to think what you want and not allowing your mind to run rampant like monkeys in a forest. It takes incredible discipline and a strong will.

JediTerminator · « **Reply #10 on:** March 02, 2013, 06:01:25 PM »

Quote from: E-Kul on March 02, 2013, 05:56:10 PM

You need to have a deep intelligence coupled with indomitable resolve. it is not a matter of not feeling those emotions, it is feeling them and pushing them to one side to focus on the here and now. It is choosing to think what you want and not allowing your mind to run rampant like monkeys in a forest. It takes incredible discipline and a strong will.

that makes alot of sense. i went through a rough transition period before and looking back on it it made me grow up in a hurry.

Jadeveon Clowney · « **Reply #11 on:** March 02, 2013, 06:12:25 PM »

stop eating meat. lack of heme iron in your diet will fill your soul with hate for your fellow man thereby making you the hard bastard you aspire to be.

freespirit · « **Reply #12 on:** March 02, 2013, 11:58:50 PM »

Be water my friend.

240 is Back · « **Reply #13 on:** March 03, 2013, 12:01:15 AM »

it comes with time. you get thru things a few times, and you realize how little things matter in the long run.

old people... fat, out of shape, bald, stinkin... they dont give a shit, because they've seen the world they grew up wtih disappear, they've seen most of their loved ones die, adn they've seen the whole new generation of crap dominate culture, over and over.

Time. Give it time and you'll be a hard jaded MFer.

booty · « **Reply #14 on:** March 03, 2013, 12:13:19 AM »

I like hard on the outside and soft on the inside!

syntaxmachine · « **Reply #15 on:** March 03, 2013, 03:15:32 AM »

Due to neuroplasticity, modifying the flux of experience we witness day in and day out is liable to change our mentality (to varying degrees) as the sensory barrage literally restructures portions of our brains. If you want to become "harder," dull your affective mechanisms by modifying the flux of experience accordingly. Do what hard people do, see what they see. The functionality of your affective mechanisms will decline as a result of relatively little use ("use it or lose it").

The best at being hard are born that way, and why anyone would want to become more like them I'm not sure.

True · « **Reply #16 on:** March 03, 2013, 03:17:27 AM »

Lifting weights is a good way of getting rid of emotions and staying cold, calm and focused. I always loved that fact and use it higly as an advantage in life.

True · « **Reply #17 on:** March 03, 2013, 03:22:12 AM »

Quote from: booty on March 03, 2013, 12:13:19 AM

I like hard on the outside and soft on the inside!

Dont lie, you like it hard on the inside as well.................... ..

Tapeworm · « **Reply #18 on:** March 03, 2013, 03:22:28 AM »

Yes, we feel too deeply around here. That's the trouble.

The Grim Lifter · « **Reply #19 on:** March 03, 2013, 03:29:16 AM »

Once you hit 2,000 posts on getbig you'll be one of the hardest bastards around

Thespritz0 · « **Reply #20 on:** March 03, 2013, 03:34:06 AM »

Be deployed to fight in any war/conflict, after I got back I just felt sorry for humanity- I NEVER took it too seriously after that. Just kids playing in a damn sandbox, that's all we are!!!