Getbig, please help. What do I do?

[BIG ACH]

Yes offer to pay her back.... it'd be a classy move if she refuses it, but if she doesn't then not a big deal either.

If she does refuse though, make sure you say something smooth like "oh are you sure?  well, still... I owe you (((Fill in the blanks with something you think she'll like))) on top of this date!"

[SF1900]

The other question is this:

How do I refrain from going into a state of catabolism, given that I will not be around food. How do I get in my meal?

[chaos]

The other question is this:

How do I refrain from going into a state of catabolism, given that I will not be around food. How do I get in my meal?

[SF1900]

 

Its a justifiable question. I worked arms today. If I do not eat every 2-3 hours, then the work out was a waste.

[DroppingPlates]

Aren't you making things over complicated

[Borracho]

I did pay for the rest of the night, as the bar took debit cards for everything else (just not the cover charge).

If you guys went to a bar I don't see why you'd pay her way once you got inside. Is she unemployed or an escort  

[SF1900]

If you guys went to a bar I don't see why you'd pay her way once you got inside. Is she unemployed or an escort  

 

Because its a date.   It wasnt like a local, shitty pub. It was a nice place. I figured paying was the right thing to do.

[SF1900]

Aren't you making things over complicated

I was thinking I should bring a protein bar along with me to avoid catabolism. Plus, she may be impressed by this.

[Borracho]

 

Because its a date. 

Assuming sf stands for San Francisco than American woman have no problem going "dutch". The way I see it is that you're just getting to know this person....that in itself is a huge investment.

[el numero uno]

I wouldn't pay her the $10, you're going to spend waaaay more on her anyway, not saying that's wrong tough.

[Borracho]

I wouldn't pay her the $10, you're going to spend waaaay more on her anyway, not saying that's wrong tough.

He already has. 

[Grape Ape]

I was thinking I should bring a protein bar along with me to avoid catabolism. Plus, she may be impressed by this.

I always keep a supply of the old school Gainers Fuel bars that were so big they were put in mini boxes for just these purpose.   Just let the end stick out of your fanny back just a bit, so SHE initiates the conversation, and it doesn't look like you're trying too hard.  Works every time.

[SF1900]

Assuming sf stands for San Francisco than American woman have no problem going "dutch". The way I see it is that you're just getting to know this person....that in itself is a huge investment.

 

SF does not stand for San Fran, though I do live in the USA! 

[DroppingPlates]

I was thinking I should bring a protein bar along with me to avoid catabolism. Plus, she may be impressed by this.

No, you need that 6-meal bag, remember? 

[SF1900]

No, you need that 6-meal bag, remember? 

haha lol.
Dude, I think that is way too big to bring. She may think I am a meat head

[Borracho]

 

SF does not stand for San Fran, though I do live in the USA! 

That's too bad...I hear there's an elton john concert coming up there real soon.

[DroppingPlates]

haha lol.
Dude, I think that is way too big to bring. She may think I am a meat head

Trust me, most women prefer a meat head over a pencil head.
Just explain her the importance of the anabolic window/proper nutrient timing 

[SF1900]

i didnt read, but yeah pay a bit, dont be tight ass, dont use such tactics on women.
pay something.

i cant get hardon if i dont have to pay

 

Thanks! I see youre back. Good stuff!

[Butterbean]

Then again, I thought whipping out a $10 dollar bill in front of her might impress her.

Say oh yeah I owe you this and hand her a $20.  She will likely say "oh but it was only $10."
Then just say no worries or something like that.

If she lets you give her the $20 and doesn't mention that it was only $10, then you might want to start another thread on that.

[SF1900]

Say oh yeah I owe you this and hand her a $20.  She will likely say "oh but it was only $10."
Then just say no worries or something like that.

If she lets you give her the $20 and doesn't mention that it was only $10, then you might want to start another thread on that.

 

Butterbean, that is a good move. Very sly. I think she is honest and would give me back the $10

[Psychopath]

You paid for everything else, why are you stressing over this?

Here, do this.

During the next date, 20min in or so, fold the 10dollar bill into an aeroplane shape n give to her playing it off as present. Or say, hey look what I made...

Something silly along those lines, and be sure to carry some cash with you next time...

Fuck, I swear to Zeus women aren't worth it LoL

[daddy8ball]

Don't pay her back, or even bring it up again.

Your behavior screams "beta male" who constantly tries to please and buy acceptance. Women read this as desperation. You should act as if she's lucky she had the honor of buying the goddamned cover.

You didn't know they had a cover. You didn't have cash. (Bad move, BTW). She covered it....move on.

[HockeyFightFan]

So, I have another date with the lady from last week. We are meeting tonight.

Anyway, last week we went to bar that had a live band. Actually, we did not know that there was going to be a live band. When we arrived, we found out that there was a cover charge for each person. I did not have cash on me, as I mainly use debit card. So she paid for the cover charge. I did pay for the rest of the night, as the bar took debit cards for everything else (just not the cover charge). I apologized for this, and told her that I would withdraw money from the ATM later in the evening and pay her back. Unfortunately, I never made it to the ATM, and forgot to pay her back. I acknowledged my mistake after the date was over and sent her a text. Her reply was, "no worries "

My question is, do I pay her back tonight when I see her? Or consider it an extra $10 dollars in my pocket? Then again, I thought whipping out a $10 dollar bill in front of her might impress her. I do not want her to think I am dwelling on past dates or anything. She is cool, because she does not pick really expensive places, like the 25 year old I went out with (the one whose name I forgot). Not that I would mind if she picked more expensive places, but she is really cool and down to earth. I think I should pay her back the $10.  

Thanks for your help.

SF1900

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Why do you bother us with such trivial shit? Like Chaos said, pics of her ex-husband fisting you or I'm calling bullshit.

[SF1900]

Why do you bother us with such trivial shit? Like Chaos said, pics of her ex-husband fisting you or I'm calling bullshit.

 

Calm down, man! you do not have to answer my question :-)

I will not post any derogatory pics

[SF1900]

Don't pay her back, or even bring it up again.

Your behavior screams "beta male" who constantly tries to please and buy acceptance. Women read this as desperation. You should act as if she's lucky she had the honor of buying the goddamned cover.

You didn't know they had a cover. You didn't have cash. (Bad move, BTW). She covered it....move on.

 

Solid advice