Years ago I dated a girl very briefly. Her brother was a high school friend. She was a bit up younger than me at the time and just out of a pretty rocky relationship. Apparently she had run away with him at some point and was missing for a couple month. I did not find this out until much later.
She used to call me all the time asking me to come over because her ex was driving up and down her street and calling her house. Something wasn't right about this whole thing-a lot of red flags. I never saw the guy drive down the street and he didn't call when I came over. It didnt take long for me to realize this was not a relationship I wanted to be in.
I talked to all my friends, also friends of her brother, about the situation to break up with her, and they agreed I should. I didn't think it would be that big of a deal because the situation wasn't serious. What do you know, she started to make the same accusations about me as she had her ex boyfriend. She got her brother so wound up he started talking shit to all our friends.
My point is, an embarrassed woman who feels jilted is capable of some extremely dirty tactics. They know how to exploit the protective nature of men. Now I don't know what happened in this situation but since my experience I'm always a little suspect.
