Author Topic: my gf said she's gonna start looking for a man to marry her, i guess that's that (Read 9706 times)

anabolichalo · « **Reply #25 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:39:52 PM »

Quote from: ESFitness on November 06, 2013, 12:38:17 PM

who is the un-fit parent?

you?

her?

are BOTH of you un-fit parents?

who has the job?

who has the better chance at providing a loving nurturing environment for the child?

who will be living off handouts and gov't assistance?

"remember we live in an anti rational society" --Mike Mentzer

they will say oh he doesnt have time he's always working

oh he doesnt know how to take care of a baby like a mother

etc

very rare for a dude to get custody

Rambone · « **Reply #26 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:40:11 PM »

We want prenup we want prenup

anabolichalo · « **Reply #27 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:41:28 PM »

so how do i proceed

the paternity route which is a gamble

or the custody route

which is also a gamble but a lesser gamble

going the paternity test route seems detrimental to later get custody

"oh he didnt even believe it was his and probably wished it wasnt"

ESFitness · « **Reply #28 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:42:27 PM »

Quote from: anabolichalo on November 06, 2013, 12:39:52 PM

"remember we live in an anti rational society" --Mike Mentzer

they will say oh he doesnt have time he's always working

oh he doesnt know how to take care of a baby like a mother

etc

very rare for a dude to get custody

it's rare because it's rare for the dude to ask for custody.

it's very, very simple dude.

do you want to be a part of your childs life? do you want to be a father?

if she's such an unfit parent, why in the motherfucking world would you want YOUR fucking SON to be raised by some UNFIT skank neegah whore?

or are you REALLY not MAN enough to RAISE your OWN SON.?

RUDE BUOY · « **Reply #29 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:43:32 PM »

shit getten real in this thread

anabolichalo · « **Reply #30 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:45:06 PM »

ideally i would want him on my side just so that she wouldnt see another dime from this fella

and so that i can make sure he gets a proper education

ESFitness · « **Reply #31 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:45:28 PM »

I swear to fucking god sometimes dude, I wish you were sitting in my office where I could stand over you and point my finger in your face and slap some sense into you.

just take out a loan... somehow... 50k.. and leave the country. move to india.. or Thailand... forever.

anabolichalo · « **Reply #32 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:46:22 PM »

how do i get a paternity test first before applying for this custody matter

can i do it secretly?

take some of his blood to a hospital

SERIOUS QUESTION^^

RUDE BUOY · « **Reply #33 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:47:09 PM »

Quote from: anabolichalo on November 06, 2013, 12:46:22 PM

how do i get a paternity test first before applying for this custody matter

can i do it secretly?

take some of his blood to a hospital

SERIOUS QUESTION^^

you dont even need blood

lol

ESFitness · « **Reply #34 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:47:30 PM »

Quote from: anabolichalo on November 06, 2013, 12:46:22 PM

how do i get a paternity test first before applying for this custody matter

can i do it secretly?

take some of his blood to a hospital

SERIOUS QUESTION^^

they don't use blood.

they take cotton swabs of yours and the childs mouth.

anabolichalo · « **Reply #35 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:48:20 PM »

Quote from: ESFitness on November 06, 2013, 12:45:28 PM

I swear to fucking god sometimes dude, I wish you were sitting in my office where I could stand over you and point my finger in your face and slap some sense into you.

just take out a loan... somehow... 50k.. and leave the country. move to india.. or Thailand... forever.

i dont need a loan for that

but what would be the point of that

my family is here and by that i mean my real family

anabolichalo · « **Reply #36 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:49:09 PM »

Quote from: ESFitness on November 06, 2013, 12:47:30 PM

they don't use blood.

they take cotton swabs of yours and the childs mouth.

can i do it myself of have a doctor do it right away without her knowledge on this matter?

sounds exciting

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #37 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:51:56 PM »

I thought shizzo was in timeout.

anabolichalo · « **Reply #38 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:52:58 PM »

step one: determine if it's actually my kid

step two: if not, try to get a lawyer to find out if i can cancel the recognition of the child? seems unlikely and even impossible...

if yes... try to get custody...?

ESFitness · « **Reply #39 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:57:20 PM »

Quote from: anabolichalo on November 06, 2013, 12:52:58 PM

step one: determine if it's actually my kid

step two: if not, try to get a lawyer to find out if i can cancel the recognition of the child? seems unlikely and even impossible...

if yes... try to get custody...?

OMG.

step 1 is petition for full custody... a blood test is offered by the state to determine custody. if it's yours, you pay.. if not, you don't pay.

ESFitness · « **Reply #40 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:57:52 PM »

go to the court house.. they have little fat Latinas to help you out with all your options.

anabolichalo · « **Reply #41 on:** November 06, 2013, 12:58:04 PM »

i googled the local laws and it could be possible before the kid is one year to cancel the recognition if it is proven it's not mine

i doubt it's not mine tho but i should find out asap

anabolichalo · « **Reply #42 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:00:47 PM »

HOW CAN I QUICKLY FIND OUT IF HES TRULY MY KID WITHOUT TELLING HER IM INVESTIGATING THIS

can i take him to a doctor and will they do this even thos shes not there

can i do this myself with some do it yourself kit?

bigkid · « **Reply #43 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:06:36 PM »

https://www.homedna.com/

Meaningless · « **Reply #44 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:07:41 PM »

You are just wasting everybodys time, next week you will be talking some other shit about staying with her. You are weak and under her control and you will never man up and leave her. Please fuck off.

ganero76 · « **Reply #45 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:08:04 PM »

MODS: This asshole has been warned about these threads. Please ban.

HockeyFightFan · « **Reply #46 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:10:46 PM »

Quote from: anabolichalo on November 06, 2013, 01:00:47 PM

HOW CAN I QUICKLY FIND OUT IF HES TRULY MY KID WITHOUT TELLING HER IM INVESTIGATING THIS

can i take him to a doctor and will they do this even thos shes not there

can i do this myself with some do it yourself kit?

Anal:

You should email a guy named Richie Incognito in Miami, Florida - he can give you good advices.

RUDE BUOY · « **Reply #47 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:14:13 PM »

Quote from: HockeyFightFan on November 06, 2013, 01:10:46 PM

Anal:

You should email a guy named Richie Incognito in Miami, Florida - he can give you good advices.

MUTHA FUCKEN MIKE POUNCEY

anabolichalo · « **Reply #48 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:15:06 PM »

Quote from: bigkid on November 06, 2013, 01:06:36 PM

https://www.homedna.com/

are these websites real?

found a local one

RUDE BUOY · « **Reply #49 on:** November 06, 2013, 01:16:29 PM »

as 240 would say

this
will
not
end
well

Author Topic: my gf said she's gonna start looking for a man to marry her, i guess that's that (Read 9706 times)

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