Not at all. I've been maltreated too. Marginalized and disenfranchised. I know my brother's pain. I too am a N! I just happen to be pale. But I'm claiming this word for myself, my people, and all the downtrodden, the hard done by, those who have been stuck in traffic or had to wait in a queue, anyone who got home and found that the milk jug had a leak somewhere and had to debate whether to risk just putting it in the fridge or not.
If you cut us, do we not all bleed? If you annoy us, do we not all slap your shit?